This is the outline I developed for the first ever Black Rose ever talk on tickling. I think it was 1997....
The bond between a Dominant type, and a submissive type happens over time, and very slowly in most cases.
To execute a good mind fuck, one needs to have an understanding of how one's imagination plays into their perceptions of what is real.
"Hey I'm a Dominant, you're a submissive. If you consensually hand power over to me, we can both play our respective roles productively."
We as a rope community keep educating both rope tops and bottoms.
It's not all beer and skittles being a Dom.
The importance of collars to pets.
Protocol for initiation contact online.
Many discuss the aftercare of a bottom; but fail to mention that the top half of the slash requires it as well.
Defining the protocol of the end M/s relationship through either death or uncollaring.
We are all human, and a Dominant's flaws are just as important to communicate as their strengths.
Acknowledgements of how difficult it must be to give control.
A few areas to think about as Dominants seek to hone themselves into even better versions of themselves
The much anticipated, totally new, Ten Commandments, handed down to me from the supreme Uber Dom of the universe.
Poly Relationships within the BDSM lifestyle.
Suggested things to bring to camp
Questions to Ask Before Sceneing For The First Time
The details of a period of heightened training.
Written as personal reflection in light of a discussion list thread in which some people claimed that all power exchange is essentially fundamentally fantastical in nature. Chapter 2 is a followup.
A series of essays assigned by my owner in preparation for an intensive retraining period. What I Want Out of Being Property, What Feeds my Submission, What I Offer as a Submissive
The thing that I like most about Breath Play is this: I have complete and utter control of the sub.
Instruction on the basics of formal protocol in a Don/sub relationship.
The Origins of Fire Cupping
Absinthe may be served in two different ways. Elaborate Gorean style serves for each style.
Cupping therapy is an ancient Chinese form of alternative medicine in which a local suction is created on the skin; using cups, bowls, bells or horns to draws the blood into a localized area.