A short history of bondage, safety, technique, basic knots, glossary, and several resources for erotic bondage information.
Another in the D/s Lighthouse lecture series. By Jade.
Lord Colm addresses the common notion that a dominant must first spend time as a sub in order to be effective.
A must-read for dominants. Insights into the care and feeding of the submissive from a submissive's point of view. What Do I Need From My Dominant? The Care and Feeding of a submissive.
A touching recount of a difficult lesson learned.
LES IS MORE(m) shares his insight on some of the obligations of being a dominant.
A very personal gift offered by jade to her Master and shared here for our guests' benefit.
A description of the beauty of formal collaring ceremonies.
The closed-minded dominant is one who, for whatever reason, has stopped learning
jade offers a glimpse into the ceremony and symbolism of an ancient bonding ritual.
jade offers insight into the benefits of a submissive's journal.
A good beginning on getting started.
An explanation of the Taken in Hand theory of D/s consciously and consensually male controlled sexually exclusive monogamous relationship in which the man’s power is real and for the purpose of cultivating a deeply connected, fully engaged relationship.
Let them be slaves and they will be slaves in the natural setting, in their natural state. If you are maintaining the division of the two exclusive groups you will have to accept each of their respective stations one being superior and one being inferior or contradictory to each other. The law gives or bestows certain rights and/or obligations some of which are entered into willingly and some that are not. The one’s that are not are more punitive and judgmental and stem from others morality rather than freedoms. [Gor]
The difference between CNC and Gor
What is a Mindfuck?
Sample contract for temporary ownership
Part one in a series on Gorean kajirae.
A collaring and series of trust exercises for a submissive.
In fifteen years as a lifestyle participant, i've learned an enormous amount of lessons. This is a listing of the ten that are paramount for me and, hopefully, for O/others as well.
His submissve dances.
A transcript of the ceremony guided by Benevolent Goddess. By Benevolent Goddess, jenna, Master E and Thomas.
What it is and safey hints
But what is consent, exactly? How is consent defined from a legal point of view?
You're a woman, you're heterosexual, and you keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies of a powerful, masterful man having his way with you. Before you get busy, read this.