Rating: Conservative
Stories
Summary: Past Featured Story

Sometimes punishment is needed. Sadie explins how and why.


Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2261 Read Count: 5768
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/17/2014
Summary:

Four steps to completing your fabuous photo session and looking amazing.


Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 4 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4957 Read Count: 18104
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Getting to the scene: four parts for beginners


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 4 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4989 Read Count: 32713
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

How does a feminist surrender herself to another?


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1317 Read Count: 2663
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

A FAQ on size in the lifestyle


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4032 Read Count: 11761
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Scening in public vs. preserving the sacred and some rules for public play


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2217 Read Count: 2502
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

It isn't toys that are needed for BDSM.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1384 Read Count: 3195
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Loving your size, who loves what, and getting over it all.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1897 Read Count: 5321
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Analyzing the order and things to think about.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1688 Read Count: 6934
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Exloring the premise that we can use the body to explore the spirit.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3447 Read Count: 3021
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Discussing the radical idea that BDSM is about Love


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1340 Read Count: 4513
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Size acceptance in the Lifestyle


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1843 Read Count: 2846
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
The Falconer by TorqueDom Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

An allegory of training


Categories: The Lifestyle > Inspirational Allegories, Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 470 Read Count: 3156
[Report This] Published: 07/14/2014 Updated: 07/14/2014
The "C" Word and the "B" word by Tamar Kay Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Getting around the Community with fewer Battles.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 541 Read Count: 3879
[Report This] Published: 07/14/2014 Updated: 07/14/2014
Summary:

There are some steps a non-traditional couple (such as Master/slave) can take short of getting married to improve their legal standing. This article lists some of them.


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 744 Read Count: 2599
[Report This] Published: 07/14/2014 Updated: 07/14/2014
Summary:

The differences between European and Oriental ways of implementing D/s based upon historical differences into a modern relationship


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM History
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2752 Read Count: 2356
[Report This] Published: 07/14/2014 Updated: 07/14/2014
Ask Tamar by Tamar Kay Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Meeting te possible kinky and the expectations of a first play party


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 625 Read Count: 3716
[Report This] Published: 07/14/2014 Updated: 07/14/2014
Lifestyle FAQ's by Nahdia Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Several questions answered, from the basic to the esoteric.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2759 Read Count: 2937
[Report This] Published: 07/14/2014 Updated: 07/14/2014
Summary:

The Dominants role in reestablishing a D/s reationship when it has drifted out of D/s.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1298 Read Count: 2882
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
Summary:

An alternative to "SSC", "Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink"


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 488 Read Count: 2405
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
Limitations and Personal Growth by Rover Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The Dominant's role in working through the limitiations of the self and a submissive.


Categories: Dominance, The Lifestyle > 24/7
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1127 Read Count: 3052
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
Sample Contracts by Nahdia Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Several sample contracts and a word on negotiation


Categories: The Lifestyle > Contracts
Characters: None
Content Notes: Ceremony, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 15 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 13033 Read Count: 331316
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
The Switch by Nahdia Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The role, position, and mindset of the switch in BDSM


Categories: Submission > Switching, Dominance > Switches
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1772 Read Count: 3802
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
Summary:

Understanding the difference between abusive relationships and S/M


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 763 Read Count: 5760
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
Coming Out and Getting In by Tamar Kay Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

So how do you start the process of becoming better known and more trusted in the BDSM scene?


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 525 Read Count: 3302
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
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