On the dangers of secret society stories.
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On the dangers of secret society stories.
In regards to ancient "Houses" of D/s ad BDSM.
"To serve" sems to be a goal of most submissives, but what does it really mean?
Being in highly restrictive bondage and completely alone certainly seems to be the number-one killer of sadomasochists.
A quick, safe help t get suspended person to the ground.
Both SM players and party givers should be aware that the risk of such a cardiac arrest happening as a result of a blow to the bottom's chest is low but not non-existent
This is the basic tip sheet we hand out when we give talks to groups such as college classes.
Any "Old Guard" which existed at the time did not widely see itself as such. Instead, they were more like, as the song lyric goes "just a bunch of people, doin' the best they could."
A column from 1996, musing on new Dominants vs. the more experienced
Fetish wear: mandatory, on the cheap, and fun stuff
The vanilla world isn't aways tasty and mild to the those involved in BDSM.
The spiritual side of submission isn't always thinder and ligtening
Defining spiritual BDSM through experience
Part one: The BDSM Cyber Relationship - Commentary from an Ex Real-Time Elitist
Part two: Cyber Relationships - Commentary from an Ex Real-Time Elitist
The BDSM Cyber Relationship - Commentary from an Ex Real-Time Elitist Part III
Part three: Auto Erotica: Exploring BDSM without a Partner
Part 1: Auto Erotica: Exploring BDSM without a Partner
Part four: Part four: Auto Erotica: Exploring BDSM without a Partner
Part two: Auto Erotica: Exploring BDSM without a Partner
Despite being a whore in the bedroom, I am a lady in the parlor and I expect my men to be gentlemen. It's a rare and maybe even freaky expectation in these days, but one that shows respect not only for me, but for them.
This is Part 3 in the column series Where Do I Start? for novices to the BDSM scene
Part one in the Getting Started in the BDSM scene series
This is Part 2 in the column series Where Do I Start? for novices to the BDSM scene
Differing philosophies on Topping and using a safeword