Information about using electrical toys in advanced BDSM play, and some of the risks involved.
Having worn this style of chastity belt for quite a while now, I have written down answers to some of the most frequent questions I'm asked.
comparing and contrasting the Walter Goethals and Access Denied designs.
Switching is a preference that does not seem to be gender-linked. If you're a switch in a relationship with a non-switch, here are some tips on how to make the relationship work.
Advice for new Fem Dommes, five examples of different emotional "styles" for the same scene.
Advice on deciding what kind of rope to use, and how to care for it.
Different party hosts have different rules. This essay reviews the spectrum of rules, provides some recommendations for "good party etiquette", and provides some tips for party hosts.
A few observations on Japanese rope bondage
Helpful hints on how to make your first anal experience a pleasant one.
A report on a beautiful but mysterious and controversial presentation.
The demographics of who gets involved in BDSM and manners after a scene.
Chastity, seduction, and the difference between men and women.
Some advice for a woman whose boyfriend is much more experienced, but whom she wants to learn to dominate
Is there a standard meaning to this act?
Important safety issues when leaving a bound "slave" alone -- minimize risk by providing an escape route.
My original definitions for the phrases Top/Bottom and Dom/Sub. I've since learned that common usage for "Top/Bottom" is somewhat different than I describe here.
suitable for keeping your slave's chastity belt key in
How I use high-tech toys to bridge the miles in a long distance FemDomme/MaleSub relationship
a metal cock bondage device, by someone who has worn one. Includes safety tips.
An allegory of training
Getting around the Community with fewer Battles.
There are some steps a non-traditional couple (such as Master/slave) can take short of getting married to improve their legal standing. This article lists some of them.
The differences between European and Oriental ways of implementing D/s based upon historical differences into a modern relationship
Meeting te possible kinky and the expectations of a first play party