If a Dominant cannot offer any kind of references or information about themselves then a submissive should not give to that person any level of blind faith or trust!
Looking for a lifetime partner is quite different from looking for a play partner.
The Illusions of Safety. Limits.
Bastinado: from the word baston, which in English becomes baton
Sometimes we give much weight to what people say to us. This is particularly so for people who become known to each other through the Internet and phone.
Affectionate care and attention following any type of traumatic or mentally challenging event.
Allure: The power of attraction or fascination
Venturing into the realms of Altered Mental States should be done carefully.
Introducing a second submissive into an established relationship.
It is fundamentally true that within the BDSM community are physical, emotional and mental abusers.
The act of punishment offers absolution from mistakes within a dynamic.
24/7 simply means 24 hours a day - 7 days a week. Not so simply, it usually means the desire for lifetime commitment or a relationship with many or most of the same attributes that are familiar to all of us in it's vanilla counterpart - the marriage.
Long Distance Relationships are hard. D/s LDRs can be a lot harder.
Theoretical consent and its real life applications.
Hot? Cold? Both? Is it burning? Is it freezing? Talk about Temperature Play with Kate Wolf(Owner) and Kitten[Collared]! 9/6/20
The definition of vetting is simply: "make a careful and critical examination of (something)" in this case, it's a potential partner.
The Kink Shrink visits to talk all about degradation and how it differs from humiliation. This is edge play. 9/20/20
The responsibilities the Dominant and submissive have to each other. So does the responsibility of the dynamic lie with the Dominant or the submissive
Kitten [Collared] and chrissa discuss self care how and why on 7/21/20
Kikkanna brings information on pain play from the experience of a Sadist
Ms Monster talks in chat about those Kinky Books You Should Read, both fiction and non-fiction. 8/5/20
UNG talks high protocol and it isn't all tea and bootblacking
GOR: Slaves as Treasured Property 7/15/20
Chat topic 8/30/20. Talk about the almost opposite of jealousy.
Ms Monster discusses breath play. Note that this is deadly edge play and is in no way condoned by The BDSM Garden.