A few basic principles used to denote your availability to the men around you
Fainting or blacking out (known medically as "syncope") is not infrequent in a play setting, especially when rope suspension is involved. In the majority of cases, the fainter will recover quickly. Don't panic! At an event or a venue where medical staff is available, immediately call them if someone faints.
This essay explains why the standard "model" of presenting SM-related safety information may be inadequate to explain the risks associated with breath control play.
This essay explores the issue of cumulative brain damage from repeated incidents of suffocation and/or strangulation.
This essay offers a possible explanation as to why some people seem to be at higher risk of dying suddenly from being choked than other people are.
Six boy scout knots, cheerfully stolen from the Boy Scouts of America.
Knots are a skill taught at every level of scouting. The Knot Master Program is designed to provide each scout an opportunity to learn essential knots as well as other fun and useful knots that you will use for the rest of your life. cheerfully stolen from the Boy Scouts of America
A visual aid for tying knots, cheerfully stolen from the Boy Scouts of America.
This is Part 4 in the column series Where Do I Start? for novices to the BDSM scene
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How to self-spank
Different types of punishments
The effects of different toys and tools graded by sting, burn, and marking.
Let the punishment fit the crime
A chart showing impact play implements, pain level, resulting burn, and marks
A discussion on the different types of spankings
This hottest colors in the spanking world, collected in the new Spanktone Book.
An implement tear-off sheet for submissives to request spankings.
What is a tawse?
Everything you need to start playing with your bottom's bottom.
What is a strop and how to use it.
BDSM has SCC but what are the three Cs of spanking?
A few positions to consider
How to use using capsaicin cream during play to make it hurt.
What is an enema and why do people do it?