What's the difference between a sadist and a BDSM sadist.
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 58 Read Count: 930
Titles
Stories
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 58 Read Count: 930
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 58 Read Count: 930
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
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Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 451 Read Count: 5363
Doms explaining themselves.
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 451 Read Count: 5363
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
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Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 320 Read Count: 4051
The Pygmalion Syndrome
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 320 Read Count: 4051
[Report This] Published: 12/21/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 202 Read Count: 2669
The difference between Punishment and Funishment
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 202 Read Count: 2669
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
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Categories: How-To > Aftercare
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 141 Read Count: 1707
What you may need in your aftercare kit
Categories: How-To > Aftercare
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 141 Read Count: 1707
[Report This] Published: 12/02/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
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Categories: How-To > Aftercare
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 4 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 757 Read Count: 18849
Aftercare can take many forms.
Categories: How-To > Aftercare
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 4 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 757 Read Count: 18849
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1380 Read Count: 3046
So, your wife has confessed to you that she needs a spanking, but you don't understand why, or how to go about giving it to her.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1380 Read Count: 3046
[Report This] Published: 01/01/2019 Updated: 01/01/2019
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Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 450 Read Count: 806
Let's talk a bit about rewards
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 450 Read Count: 806
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex Toys
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Primal/Pet, Safety, Sex Toys
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 301 Read Count: 1657
What are buttplugs made of? What types of lube can be used with them?
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex Toys
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Primal/Pet, Safety, Sex Toys
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 301 Read Count: 1657
[Report This] Published: 12/02/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 633 Read Count: 826
Women are sexual creatures.
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 633 Read Count: 826
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 454 Read Count: 1960
Impact play is a common kink that's practiced in D/s dynamics and S&M. It can be a form of punishment, teasing, play, and therapy.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 454 Read Count: 1960
[Report This] Published: 12/02/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
Summary: 
Categories: The Lifestyle > DDlg MDlb CGl ABDLmnop, Dominance > Daddy & Mommy Dom/mes
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 843 Read Count: 1727
To say that a Daddy has a duty of care to his little is axiomatic.
Categories: The Lifestyle > DDlg MDlb CGl ABDLmnop, Dominance > Daddy & Mommy Dom/mes
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 843 Read Count: 1727
[Report This] Published: 12/28/2018 Updated: 12/30/2018
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 704 Read Count: 812
12 Traits of a True Dom
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 704 Read Count: 812
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 12/30/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 228 Read Count: 912
An explanation of pain calibration
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 228 Read Count: 912
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 12/30/2018
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1134 Read Count: 2218
Can a human being be owned? For me, rape is the ultimate expression of TPE.
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1134 Read Count: 2218
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 12/30/2018
Summary:
Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1636 Read Count: 1008
A few basic principles used to denote your availability to the men around you
Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1636 Read Count: 1008
[Report This] Published: 12/17/2018 Updated: 12/17/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1648 Read Count: 1063
Fainting or blacking out (known medically as "syncope") is not infrequent in a play setting, especially when rope suspension is involved. In the majority of cases, the fainter will recover quickly. Don't panic! At an event or a venue where medical staff is available, immediately call them if someone faints.
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1648 Read Count: 1063
[Report This] Published: 11/30/2018 Updated: 11/30/2018
Breath Control Play — A long and technical outline of practices and risks by Stefanos and Shay Rated: Extreme [Reviews - 0]
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2423 Read Count: 77
In preparation for being on a breath control play panel at a local BDSM club, I organized this outline, and thought I would post it as well.
This writing represents ONLY my own thoughts and accumulation of research (my resources are varied and include everything from medical articles to Wikipedia to anatomy texts to my general nursing knowledge/experience) and not those of any of the other panelists or the SF Citadel. It is not in any way intended as an endorsement of breath control play of any kind (which is risky, dontchaknow).
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2423 Read Count: 77
[Report This] Published: 11/30/2018 Updated: 11/30/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3416 Read Count: 23
Things to consider when doing breath play
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3416 Read Count: 23
[Report This] Published: 11/30/2018 Updated: 11/30/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 585 Read Count: 1137
This essay explains why the standard "model" of presenting SM-related safety information may be inadequate to explain the risks associated with breath control play.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 585 Read Count: 1137
[Report This] Published: 11/25/2018 Updated: 11/29/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1728 Read Count: 1148
This essay explores the issue of cumulative brain damage from repeated incidents of suffocation and/or strangulation.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1728 Read Count: 1148
[Report This] Published: 11/25/2018 Updated: 11/29/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2040 Read Count: 3227
This essay offers a possible explanation as to why some people seem to be at higher risk of dying suddenly from being choked than other people are.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2040 Read Count: 3227
[Report This] Published: 11/25/2018 Updated: 11/29/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 12 Read Count: 1290
Six boy scout knots, cheerfully stolen from the Boy Scouts of America.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 12 Read Count: 1290
[Report This] Published: 11/11/2018 Updated: 11/17/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 16 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 7115 Read Count: 24423
Knots are a skill taught at every level of scouting. The Knot Master Program is designed to provide each scout an opportunity to learn essential knots as well as other fun and useful knots that you will use for the rest of your life. cheerfully stolen from the Boy Scouts of America
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 16 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 7115 Read Count: 24423
[Report This] Published: 11/11/2018 Updated: 11/17/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 14 Read Count: 1142
A visual aid for tying knots, cheerfully stolen from the Boy Scouts of America.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 14 Read Count: 1142
[Report This] Published: 11/11/2018 Updated: 11/17/2018