Bastinado: from the word baston, which in English becomes baton
The do's and Dont's for that first time spanking.
When you hear "spanking", you probably think of it in terms of punishment. Spankings can actually be more than that: punishment, funishment, and therapeutic.
Why are people into spanking?
A little about giving spankings
This article is about how to give a good paddling, strapping, or caning.
Tips for face slapping women
Reasons for face slapping
The difference between Punishment and Funishment
So, your wife has confessed to you that she needs a spanking, but you don't understand why, or how to go about giving it to her.
Impact play is a common kink that's practiced in D/s dynamics and S&M. It can be a form of punishment, teasing, play, and therapy.
Need an idea to spice up your night; try one of these ideas.
How to self-spank
The effects of different toys and tools graded by sting, burn, and marking.
A discussion on the different types of spankings
An implement tear-off sheet for submissives to request spankings.
BDSM has SCC but what are the three Cs of spanking?
A few positions to consider
Anatomy of a basic discipline correctional spanking
Tips for a quieter spanking
The Arkham Scale of spanking positions
An introduction to spanking
Melanoma is an increasingly common form of life-threatening cancer, usually found on the skin, and known for its early and rapid tendency to spread to other organs. Melanoma is frequently found on the back -- a location often whipped during SM play. The back is also a location not easy for a person to examine themselves. Studies have shown that manipulation of a melanoma (and a whip stroke, spank, or other type of blow would, obviously, be a form of "manipulation") definitely increases the number of cancer cells that break off and begin to spread to other parts of the body. It is therefore essential that SM practitioners know how to spot possible melanomas, both on themselves and on their partners, to avoid whipping or otherwise disturbing melanomas, and to receive early, definitive medical diagnosis and treatment.
A discussion of Impact Play.
A short chapter from my never published, book length treatise on impact play.