What happens if you are a new submissive and do not know what your 'soft limits' <please read article on website titled soft limits> are? How can you pre-decide what to identify as a limit?
Frequently I work with people who... are concerned that their desire to submit will wane.
A different view. D/s, polyamory, and an exit plan.
The negative stigmas and stereotypes surrounding BDSM and how we can address them. 2/10/20
3/15/20 mori discusses needle and sharps play
A discussion on the different types of spankings
Please give this post some thought. Get to know your potential bottoms well enough to engage in these type conversations. Whatever you do, have some "Plan B" that will allow a rope bottom to get loose in the event of an emergency.
How one Dominant does it.
Not a handbook, but bits of advice from a Dom.
Negotiating the scene.
Tips for dealing with common challenges.
The first terms of my scene negotiations. This is what I can offer, and what I need you to give me. If these preliminary terms cannot be met, then we have nothing further to talk about.
Wanting to belong to the BDSM community often makes newbies forget about protecting themselves, first.
An introduction to Gor and online forums where Goreans meet and share ideas.