Updated 5/5/16 Certain botanical irritants are very efficient at causing pain without damage or much effort. A discussion of using nettles, ginger, and peppers in play.
There is more than just power that is exchanged in what it is that we do.
Tips on Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol
These words are technically misnomers, which is to say that they are the best words to describe what you're doing, but that doesn't make them actually altogether accurate descriptions
Whether or not a submissive could have two Doms
A few things I have learned about pegging.
Here are points that I feel are important to my training.
I was not out of line in displeasing him, yet I still feel ashamed. Dammit.
There are definitely some recommended do's and don'ts as far as tickling torture goes.
What is a Dominant's moral obligation to his or her slave?
Controlling my own orgasmic response in order to increase my own and my slaves' sexual pleasure
Or How do I Get a Mistress to Accept my Petition?
Or, How Do I Get A Dom, Anyway?
Lord Colm throws the penalty flag on some of the more inane and senseless online practices.
On the dangers of secret society stories.
In regards to ancient "Houses" of D/s ad BDSM.
An alternative to "SSC", "Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink"
"How do I find a Dom/ Dominant/ Dominatrix/ domme/ Goddess/ Mistress/ dominant_Lady/ dominate_woman?"
Techniques used in evaluating risk and risk management
Taken from the Old Guard and adapted to the New Guard
