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Melanoma is an increasingly common form of life-threatening cancer, usually found on the skin, and known for its early and rapid tendency to spread to other organs. Melanoma is frequently found on the back -- a location often whipped during SM play. The back is also a location not easy for a person to examine themselves. Studies have shown that manipulation of a melanoma (and a whip stroke, spank, or other type of blow would, obviously, be a form of "manipulation") definitely increases the number of cancer cells that break off and begin to spread to other parts of the body. It is therefore essential that SM practitioners know how to spot possible melanomas, both on themselves and on their partners, to avoid whipping or otherwise disturbing melanomas, and to  receive early, definitive medical diagnosis and treatment.     

There are a lot of ideas out there as to what a Mommy Domme is, a lot of preconceived ideas probably based on talking to third party or biased others, or, God forbid, porn. Here's mine...

Teaching with no ego.    

Perception isn't everything, but it's something.

Concerning humiliation and degradation scenes. 

Movie Review - Pleasure or Pain (2013)

Becoming a new sub is a lot more dangerous than becoming a Dom, the major risks being a new Dom is looking like an idiot and possibly hurting a sub, the risk being a sub is getting raped and abused.

An exploration of how so-called submission can be used to control a dominant.

This is a list set up to aide in the communication of abilities and performance, and to clarify the expectations of the Dominant for the submissive. 

Many dominants think they have the right to demand honorifics. I disagree.

Movie Review - Snake and Whip (1986) Labels: 1980s, BDSM (male Dom / female sub and female Domme / male sub), bondage (shibari), Dan Oniruku hebi to muchi, enema play, golden showers, Japanese, rough sex, Snake and Whip, suspension