Chat topic 8/30/20. Talk about the almost opposite of jealousy.
Ms Monster discusses breath play. Note that this is deadly edge play and is in no way condoned by The BDSM Garden.
From ancient Japan to hitchin' in L.A., shibari has an interesting history.
A different view. D/s, polyamory, and an exit plan.
There is more to dominance to getting your way
How to move forward after a dynamic ends.
What does it mean to me
To teach or train, to make a convert of, more directly to make a disciple of. It is an action made in the interest of order, rule, or control
Things to remember around submissives that are not in your dynamic.
Orgasm control and its rewards.
Edge play within the BDSM lifestyle
A view from both sides of the slash
The importance of learning to be a Dom.
What is cuckqueaning?
How to chose your blades
Why is there such an influx of people entering the lifestyle after 40 and where were they before?
The truth is domestic service submissives are often rare and it is difficult to find us.
A few words on safety with knives.
German BDSM sex workers come in many flavors but two are similar - the classic Domina and the Bizarrelady. Lady Velvet Steel explains the differences.
The art of edge play
Finding rituals and tasks in D/s dynamics
Leading and following on the D/s path
A professional Domina offers her thoughts and training on how a submissive or bottom should beg for her favor.
No who others say you are
Punishment is one of those areas which is not what it seems. Before you can develop tools or methods of punishment you have to look at the concepts behind the issue itself.