I kind of have an issue with saying "I use this as a coping mechanism".
Items purchased at the store to be used in naughty ways.
Among the many problems that can happen in a scene, panic attacks can be a serious one, especially if the Top doesn't know how to handle them.
Handmade and purchased items used for BDSM play.
Understanding and combating sub frenzy.
Sensation Play toys made by hand and easily duplicable.
Bondage in a long-distance dynamic.
The value of focused attention.
If you're leading, shouldn't you know what your people think about your decisions before you make them?
Gorean dynamics are largely based upon the tenets proposed in the Gor series of books, the first of which was written and published by John Norman in 1966, however the dynamics themselves vary, just as is typical of any D/s dynamic.
A broader understanding of what "Service" means is in order.
The top five qualities I would look for in a Dom/Master.
In this day and age, is 24/7 truly possible? Are BDSM dynamics moments in time? Or is 24/7 a state of mind?
Advice and requests to my prospective Daddy
First, the topic: Does a submissive secretly want to be punished, or does she strive never to be punished?
What is cock worship?
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and BDSM.
Casts and Braces: What is the draw to this fetish? Is it a mainstream fetish or not?
Can't Drive 55? Knowing Your Limits: How and When to Discuss Them by Ms Monster
Ms Monster and Serrian discuss how we all know how BDSM is treated by film, literature and the media. Tonight, we are going to explore a little bit of that compared to real life and our experiences within the community.
Do you know the real meaning of Macho? Read on...
Creative Toys that may not come from the local sex tpy shop.
Yes, Bootblacking certainly CAN be a fetish. But it is not exclusively one.
Just as there are many different types of gags, there are many different emotions that I experience while gagged.
Protocol, restrictions, runaways, and training.
