Kink and abuse are two different things
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM and the Media
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info, Media Review
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1801 Read Count: 984
Rating: Conservative
Stories
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM and the Media
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info, Media Review
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1801 Read Count: 984
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM and the Media
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info, Media Review
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1801 Read Count: 984
[Report This] Published: 02/02/2019 Updated: 02/24/2019
Endorphins and adrenaline - What science really says by Hermes Solenzol Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1391 Read Count: 1058
The issue of endorphin release is enormously complicated.
Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1391 Read Count: 1058
[Report This] Published: 02/10/2019 Updated: 02/24/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1878 Read Count: 1126
It is such a complex biochemical process that it would be good for us to understand.
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1878 Read Count: 1126
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 198 Read Count: 1342
Your consent, as a gift and as abuse, with a Three Minute Game for couples.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 198 Read Count: 1342
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 895 Read Count: 1112
For all the power that we Doms exercise, the greatest power of all is the power that we never use
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 895 Read Count: 1112
[Report This] Published: 12/28/2018 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 861 Read Count: 1111
Sharing: a gesture of goodwill.
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 861 Read Count: 1111
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 689 Read Count: 866
Buttplugs are very effective ways to put somebody into submissive mind space.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 689 Read Count: 866
[Report This] Published: 02/10/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
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Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 572 Read Count: 1071
Busting some common BDSM myths.
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 572 Read Count: 1071
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1137 Read Count: 835
What is trust anyway why do we need it in BDSM.
Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1137 Read Count: 835
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 18 Read Count: 1147
Experience, giving, and receiving.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 18 Read Count: 1147
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
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Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 568 Read Count: 5678
You don't get to submit - or dominate - only when you're in the mood.
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 568 Read Count: 5678
[Report This] Published: 02/10/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
When 'should' you disclose you have a mental illness by TheKinkShrink Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1018 Read Count: 770
I also said when not if, could it be an if at all?
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1018 Read Count: 770
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 251 Read Count: 1032
As part of your negotiation, ask this question.
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 251 Read Count: 1032
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Why we can NEVER give full consent as we don't get consequence by TheKinkShrink Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 325 Read Count: 995
To fully consent, one must understand and anticipate all of the potential consequences.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 325 Read Count: 995
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
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Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1643 Read Count: 2123
One of the most fascinating aspects of BDSM is its ability to induce altered states of consciousness.
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1643 Read Count: 2123
[Report This] Published: 02/10/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
You may not be submissive however you are A submissive! by TheKinkShrink Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 319 Read Count: 1205
Just because you don't always submit, does not mean you are not A submissive
Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 319 Read Count: 1205
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 987 Read Count: 1002
Consent is when a person freely agrees to something. When it comes to sex, consent is mandatory, every time.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 987 Read Count: 1002
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1385 Read Count: 3488
Concerning Gaslighting
Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1385 Read Count: 3488
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 822 Read Count: 1683
When you hear "spanking", you probably think of it in terms of punishment. Spankings can actually be more than that: punishment, funishment, and therapeutic.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 822 Read Count: 1683
[Report This] Published: 12/02/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
The 6th amendment and the BDSM/kink/fetish community (aka sexual minorities) by mxponysyn Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 578 Read Count: 999
The 6th amendment and the BDSM/kink/fetish community (aka sexual minorities)
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 578 Read Count: 999
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 363 Read Count: 956
A natural Dom has it come 'naturally' to him
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 363 Read Count: 956
[Report This] Published: 02/02/2019 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Safe Words
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 587 Read Count: 1047
Safewording isn't the end of the world
Categories: How-To > Safe Words
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 587 Read Count: 1047
[Report This] Published: 12/19/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
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Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 998 Read Count: 992
There's a widespread school of thought in BDSM that advocates punishment to correct misbehaviour on submissives. I don't believe it works, because punishment doesn't change behaviour.
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 998 Read Count: 992
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM History
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 932 Read Count: 972
A history of old European BDSM Houses.
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM History
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 932 Read Count: 972
[Report This] Published: 12/17/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 197 Read Count: 1230
Do not do plastic bag breath play!
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 197 Read Count: 1230
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019