Rating: Extreme
Stories
Summary:

CNC, rape, ravishment, and resistance play - what are differences, how and why they are done. Sunday Feb 16 topic discussion. 


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Other Interesting Play, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Non-Consent
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5334 Read Count: 31
[Report This] Published: 02/19/2020 Updated: 03/08/2020
Summary:

This article is about how to give a good paddling, strapping, or caning.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 8658 Read Count: 47
[Report This] Published: 01/01/2019 Updated: 01/08/2019
Summary:

In preparation for being on a breath control play panel at a local BDSM club, I organized this outline, and thought I would post it as well.

This writing represents ONLY my own thoughts and accumulation of research (my resources are varied and include everything from medical articles to Wikipedia to anatomy texts to my general nursing knowledge/experience) and not those of any of the other panelists or the SF Citadel. It is not in any way intended as an endorsement of breath control play of any kind (which is risky, dontchaknow).


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2423 Read Count: 77
[Report This] Published: 11/30/2018 Updated: 11/30/2018
BreathPlay by shahrazadstory Rated: Extreme [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Things to consider when doing breath play


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3416 Read Count: 23
[Report This] Published: 11/30/2018 Updated: 11/30/2018
Summary:

Regardless of what subject you're referring to or activity you're practicing, there are a number of very broad general principles that apply when it comes to safety. The most important features are knowledge & understanding, vigilance (or awareness), honesty, communication, critical thinking, and intention.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To, Impact, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 902 Read Count: 43
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

Ties and applied techniques for cock and ball bondage with Tony Buff and Derek da Silva. Illustrated.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 31 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 496 Read Count: 4315
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

How to monitor a bondage scene when you can't tie yourself. An extensive introduction into monitoring a rope bondage scene, suitable for both riggers and non-riggers who work as a Dungeon Monitor.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5891 Read Count: 42
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Summary:

Are you ready to have everything you think you are, torn to shreds by everything you will become?    


Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 957 Read Count: 31
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Summary:

It takes a little time to learn, but the art of deepthroating is appreciated by every cock.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 676 Read Count: 120
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Summary:

Catharsis, is a useful tool but it must be carried it out with care. 


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 741 Read Count: 47
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

Building a Fuck Saw Machine with a remote speed controller that fits into the portable bondage frame!    


Categories: How-To > Equipment > Homemade Machines
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To, Sex Toys
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 676 Read Count: 86
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2015 Updated: 10/04/2015
Summary:

Construction details of the knockdown and portable perimeter bondage frame I use in photos and video shoots. Rated for photos.


Categories: How-To > Equipment > Bondage Furniture
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2808 Read Count: 242
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Chain Trick by WizardInLawrence Rated: Extreme [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The chain trick or chaining is the insertion of metal or plastic chain into an orifice and its subsequent removal for sexual stimulation.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Sensation, Sex Toys
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2478 Read Count: 405
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Summary:

Yes, you can get your whole hand inside your partner's pussy. For women who are into massive penetration, nothing is a bigger turn-on    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 637 Read Count: 38
[Report This] Published: 08/11/2015 Updated: 08/15/2015
Summary:

 Violet Wands can create sensations that range from gentle tingles and barely felt vibrations, to sharp shocks. Mistress Nev explains the use of this electroplay toy.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Electro Play
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1244 Read Count: 58
[Report This] Published: 07/23/2015 Updated: 07/23/2015
Summary:

Knife play is dangerous. Here are tips on how to be safer while doing it.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Blood Play
Characters: None
Content Notes: Blood, Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2141 Read Count: 38
[Report This] Published: 05/02/2015 Updated: 05/20/2015
Summary:

How to teach it, how to take it. Deep.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1438 Read Count: 65
[Report This] Published: 03/16/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Summary:

A new take on fire cupping.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Cupping
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 496 Read Count: 35
[Report This] Published: 01/25/2015 Updated: 01/25/2015
Summary:

Please stop posting photos of your boy bits. They get tiresome.


Categories: Online D/s > Protocol
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 731 Read Count: 38
[Report This] Published: 07/21/2014 Updated: 07/21/2014
Summary:

It's not just any blowjob, it's a very, very good blowjob.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1809 Read Count: 45
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Topping from the Bottom explained through analogy


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 385 Read Count: 99
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

The meaning and uses of a safeword


Categories: How-To > Safe Words
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 330 Read Count: 67
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Why on earth would a man want to wear a chastity belt?


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1530 Read Count: 198
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Information about using electrical toys in advanced BDSM play, and some of the risks involved.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Electro Play
Characters: None
Content Notes: Electro
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1868 Read Count: 72
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Having worn this style of chastity belt for quite a while now, I have written down answers to some of the most frequent questions I'm asked.


Categories: How-To > Equipment > Chastity
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1943 Read Count: 147
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
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