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Summary:

This text has been prepared by an M.D. with a personal and professional interest in D/s. It covers topics such as safer sex, preventing and treating injury, and psychological safety. It is offered freely to the D/s community in the hopes of assisting others to find joy and fulfillment in a safe and sane environment.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2837 Read Count: 136
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
How safe are safewords? by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Is a safeword really a good safety measure? And another question: how safe is a safeword? And finally: isn't the BDSM community just a bunch of parrots, all repeating the same dogmas over and over again?    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 696 Read Count: 45
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/15/2018
Summary:

Not everything you find on the Internet, when looking for safety advice, is good information. Much of it in fact forms part of very persistent urban legends. Here is a simple list of first line safety issues: the myth as well as the facts.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2277 Read Count: 40
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/15/2018
Summary:

Communication techniques for use during play    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2230 Read Count: 650
[Report This] Published: 05/26/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

Regardless of what subject you're referring to or activity you're practicing, there are a number of very broad general principles that apply when it comes to safety. The most important features are knowledge & understanding, vigilance (or awareness), honesty, communication, critical thinking, and intention.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 902 Read Count: 17
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Play Table by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 1]
Summary:

This is the Play Table that I compiled and use in my House.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Safety, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 708 Read Count: 687
[Report This] Published: 10/24/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

Many discuss the aftercare of a bottom; but fail to mention that the top half of the slash requires it as well.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2012 Read Count: 441
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

Subspace, sub-drop and more.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2537 Read Count: 1002
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
How To Be A Good Safe Call by Silje_Wyn Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Being safe is important. Having a safe call is meant to lessen dangerous situations.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1228 Read Count: 259
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Thatís MS Bitch To You by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Questions to Ask Before Sceneing For The First Time


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 843 Read Count: 554
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2015 Updated: 10/18/2015
Summary:

An exploration and explanation of subspace: what it is and the care of subs who enter and return.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3523 Read Count: 759
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Scene Interview by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

This is a questionnaire that is specifically designed to assist in learning the bottom/submissive/slave when it concerns scening and play. This is by no means a complete list of questions but it will guide both parties as to what should indeed be discussed prior to play.     


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 331 Read Count: 744
[Report This] Published: 08/14/2015 Updated: 08/27/2015
Bruising by MasterDarkHeart Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary: Feature

Bruise care


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 228 Read Count: 905
[Report This] Published: 03/29/2015 Updated: 03/29/2015
Summary:

Your wife/girlfriend just dropped the bomb that she wants to be dominated. The very first thing to do is to Read This.


Categories: Dominance, How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2836 Read Count: 1006
[Report This] Published: 03/16/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Summary:

Are you and your mate interested but don't know where to start? Here are some suggestions. Using Some Good "Topping" to Cover The Vanilla


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2601 Read Count: 19
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Bruising by Castle Realm Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Some Tips on Preventing Bruises And Ways to Help Them Heal


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1416 Read Count: 1562
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Sadist 101, a painful mistake by sexsmurf Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A brutal lesson in why one should learn about and practice with toys before trying to use them on other people.


Categories: Dominance, How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Humour
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 307 Read Count: 914
[Report This] Published: 03/16/2015 Updated: 03/16/2015
Summary:

This is the basic tip sheet we hand out when we give talks to groups such as college classes.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 931 Read Count: 1524
[Report This] Published: 07/21/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
Summary:

Differing philosophies on Topping and using a safeword


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 755 Read Count: 1414
[Report This] Published: 07/20/2014 Updated: 07/21/2014
Summary:

Setting the scene for your scene.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2469 Read Count: 1639
[Report This] Published: 07/17/2014 Updated: 07/17/2014
Summary:

The meaning and uses of a safeword


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 330 Read Count: 26
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Cleanliness and Safety by Rover Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Emphasising the important and practice of cleanliness and sanitation in play.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1399 Read Count: 19
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
Aftercare by Chris M Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Blackrose author Chris discusses the importance of scene aftercare.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3834 Read Count: 12
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
Summary:

Practical guidelines and advice on AIDS prevention within SM play, from The AIDS Committee of Toronto Safer SM Education Project


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3391 Read Count: 15
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
Meeting Safely Real Life by Rover Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Meeting someone in RL, either someone you had met on line or in RL, is inherently dangerous. There are some steps you can take to protect yourself.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin, Online D/s > Moving Offline
Characters: None
Content Notes: Online, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 607 Read Count: 1013
[Report This] Published: 07/12/2014 Updated: 07/12/2014
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