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Manners and Etiquette by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A fast guide to the rules and protocols you might encounter in a leather/BDSM/fet gathering with some do's and don'ts.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1788 Read Count: 766
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

Please give this post some thought. Get to know your potential bottoms well enough to engage in these type conversations. Whatever you do, have some "Plan B" that will allow a rope bottom to get loose in the event of an emergency.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 770 Read Count: 301
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

Communication techniques for use during play    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin, The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2230 Read Count: 361
[Report This] Published: 05/26/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

Regardless of what subject you're referring to or activity you're practicing, there are a number of very broad general principles that apply when it comes to safety. The most important features are knowledge & understanding, vigilance (or awareness), honesty, communication, critical thinking, and intention.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 902 Read Count: 0
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Play Table by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 1]
Summary:

This is the Play Table that I compiled and use in my House.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Safety, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 708 Read Count: 356
[Report This] Published: 10/24/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1997 Read Count: 1274
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

Many discuss the aftercare of a bottom; but fail to mention that the top half of the slash requires it as well.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2012 Read Count: 196
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

Subspace, sub-drop and more.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2537 Read Count: 686
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
How To Be A Good Safe Call by Silje_Wyn Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Being safe is important. Having a safe call is meant to lessen dangerous situations.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1228 Read Count: 137
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Thatís MS Bitch To You by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Questions to Ask Before Sceneing For The First Time


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 843 Read Count: 327
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2015 Updated: 10/18/2015
Summary:

The Comprehensive List including all kinds of pet play


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Primal/Pet
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1180 Read Count: 591
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/18/2015
Summary:

General guidelines that have served me well for over a decade, but this essay isn't the end-all, be-all of etiquette.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3200 Read Count: 393
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/10/2015
Summary:

An exploration and explanation of subspace: what it is and the care of subs who enter and return.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3523 Read Count: 430
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Scene Interview by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

This is a questionnaire that is specifically designed to assist in learning the bottom/submissive/slave when it concerns scening and play. This is by no means a complete list of questions but it will guide both parties as to what should indeed be discussed prior to play.     


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 331 Read Count: 350
[Report This] Published: 08/14/2015 Updated: 08/27/2015
Bruising by MasterDarkHeart Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary: Feature

Bruise care


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 228 Read Count: 612
[Report This] Published: 03/29/2015 Updated: 03/29/2015
Summary:

Your wife/girlfriend just dropped the bomb that she wants to be dominated. The very first thing to do is to Read This.


Categories: Dominance, How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2836 Read Count: 757
[Report This] Published: 03/16/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Summary:

Negotiating the scene.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2379 Read Count: 830
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Summary:

Are you and your mate interested but don't know where to start? Here are some suggestions. Using Some Good "Topping" to Cover The Vanilla


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2601 Read Count: 8
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Bruising by Castle Realm Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Some Tips on Preventing Bruises And Ways to Help Them Heal


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1416 Read Count: 1079
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Sadist 101, a painful mistake by sexsmurf Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A brutal lesson in why one should learn about and practice with toys before trying to use them on other people.


Categories: Dominance, How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Humour
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 307 Read Count: 648
[Report This] Published: 03/16/2015 Updated: 03/16/2015
Summary:

This is the basic tip sheet we hand out when we give talks to groups such as college classes.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 931 Read Count: 1009
[Report This] Published: 07/21/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
Summary:

Differing philosophies on Topping and using a safeword


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 755 Read Count: 976
[Report This] Published: 07/20/2014 Updated: 07/21/2014
Summary:

Setting the scene for your scene.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2469 Read Count: 1047
[Report This] Published: 07/17/2014 Updated: 07/17/2014
Summary:

The meaning and uses of a safeword


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 330 Read Count: 10
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Cleanliness and Safety by Rover Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Emphasising the important and practice of cleanliness and sanitation in play.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1399 Read Count: 5
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
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