Negotiation, consent, and communication before, during, and after a scene.
Achievement of a state of sterility for objects used or reused in BDSM scening is often a poorly understood issue for newcomers into the D/s or BDSM communities.
It is curious to explore one of the mysteries of queening and to see within its example so many intriguing concepts and ideas
For 'sex' or 'scening' to be a meaningful experience there must be an investment or belief in its intrinsic value.
Performance is a dramatic representation or exhibition of an action, role or character presented to, toward and for an audience.
What happens if you are a new submissive and do not know what your 'soft limits' <please read article on website titled soft limits> are? How can you pre-decide what to identify as a limit?
To me, the peak of EDGE PLAY is within the mind itself. It is to take the submissive further, to trust deeper, fly higher than they have ever believed possible
The Wall: The Wall is one identification of the limit that the mind and body are physically capable of processing.
3/24/20 Serrian talks about the importance of limits, safewords, and aftercare online and off.
If you only contact me so you can get your needs met... you are a self indulgent bottom.
Sometimes a Top needs to stop a scene.
Depending of the extent of the damage, inflammation can last for a while after the spanking is over. This produces the nice afterglow sensation when you get sent to the corner.
No two people will share the same views on what is reasonably safe, or acceptably risky.
Many things need to be taken in to consideration about marking.
Testing Soft Limits Safely by esmay 05/19/2019 - 1:00 PM US EST
Aches and Pains and Processing the Pain by southerwildcat Sunday Topic 05/26/2019 1:00PM and 8:00PM US EST
What is pain?
If your partner has a panic attack...
As part of your negotiation, ask this question.
An explanation of pain calibration
Fainting or blacking out (known medically as "syncope") is not infrequent in a play setting, especially when rope suspension is involved. In the majority of cases, the fainter will recover quickly. Don't panic! At an event or a venue where medical staff is available, immediately call them if someone faints.
Different types of punishments
Let the punishment fit the crime
The definition for edge play varies from individual to individual, each person has his or her interpretation of what edge play truly is. For some things this may be odd, but not for edge play, let me explain
This text has been prepared by an M.D. with a personal and professional interest in D/s. It covers topics such as safer sex, preventing and treating injury, and psychological safety. It is offered freely to the D/s community in the hopes of assisting others to find joy and fulfillment in a safe and sane environment.