Trust is the confident dependence on the character, ability, strength or truth of the individual. Trustworthiness is not transient, temporary or in selective existence.
It is fairly said that the first gift of the submissive is absolute trust. This action of faith and belief precede true knowledge of the dominant that each submissive invests in.
9/17/22 Topic Chat What We Want to Tell Our Younger Selves
Safe: secure from threat or danger, harm or loss. Except, there is no such security. D/s and BDSM exist where safety is tenuous at best. Assurances of complete safety simply cannot be given.
It is my personal belief that D/s emerges from the most basic primal and instinctual triggers within the human body and human mind.
Together these elements form the 'Seductions', a presentation by the submissive aspect to encourage or lure the engagement of action by others in the form of an exchange of vital energy.
That which directs ones thinking. A 'fixing - fixation' of ones state of mind.
Wizarding rules as applied to D/s
By little dragon Oct 18, 2020. How to be in an ethical BDSM dynamic.
This is based on a real life question about the possibility of converting a vanilla person toward the kink lifestyle known as D/s BDSM. I will not address the ethics of whether or not one should consider this but instead look at the possibilities.
Studies that relate the practices of sensory stimulation or 'applied mental stresses' which are used in the S/m community
The responsibilities the Dominant and submissive have to each other. So does the responsibility of the dynamic lie with the Dominant or the submissive
To teach or train, to make a convert of, more directly to make a disciple of. It is an action made in the interest of order, rule, or control
Leading and following on the D/s path
Punishment is one of those areas which is not what it seems. Before you can develop tools or methods of punishment you have to look at the concepts behind the issue itself.
Is it possible for a submissive to be feminist? Is feminism possible in D/s? Oct 23, 2019 by kissa
While sadomasochism can be justified by the ability of pain to enhance pleasure and the happiness brought by the endorphin high, the Dominance/submission (D/s) side of the BDSM equation is not so easily explained
Can you own a human being as you own an object? I think you can
Systematizing the dynamics of a Dominance/submission (D/s) relationship.
Experience, giving, and receiving.
An analogy.
The energy generated by WITWD.
S/M is not an aberration. S/M is a sexual orientation that is found in a significant percentage of the population.
This section of the professional information, deals with the tension between law enforcement and consensual erotic power exchange.
Since erotic power exchange is attracting more interest in society, it is only logical the phenomena gets increased media coverage. In addition, the current trend - especially in audiovisual media - to try and cover more eroticism in general contributes extra to this trend