Have you told the people that you love that you're kinky? Why or why not? What are the pros and cons, how would you do it?
3/18/23 Sid explores the reasons for and possible ways for an individual to bring forth their authentic selves within the lifestyle.
3/11/23 Sid talks about mental domination and submission and the connection between partners
Analysising who is real, who is play, who is cyber etc., is a failure.
We call ourselves a community. Within that community we stand uneasily in the company of others of our kind.
The S/m lifestyle is full of titles. Ceremonial forms of address which often allude to or denote behavior as well.
10/26/22 Sweet Sass leads a discussion on High Protocol - the whys and wherefores and also dips into mentoring
Sero talks about Jealousy in the Life and Lovestyle of BDSM. 10/19/22
To grieve is normal and natural, and as such should not be seen as an issue or a condition to be cured, no set timings, your discomfort watching someone's process is a YOU problem, not a them problem.
I will express this from my personal viewpoint. When I view myself as a whole being I consider myself to be 3 distinct parts.
Shame has been used as a control tool for countless centuries. As societies form they create appropriate rules of conduct.
The sphere of interpersonal behavior most directly associated with leading up to, substituting for or resulting from genital union.
One of the most overlooked aspects of a long term D/s full time relationship is the orientation of the partner's within the relationship 'toward' each other. D/s relationships tend to be very intimately involved and often present unique and complex issues.
Self-esteem - to measure or evaluate an unstable dynamic state through material objects, money or perceptions of success within the physical plane.
9/17/22 Topic Chat What We Want to Tell Our Younger Selves
Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive.
Ritual's are most often associated with religious faith's or belief's but in actuality they exist throughout our daily lives under other names.
We call it our 'little green eyed monster', jealousy is that which devours our relationships, inspiring mistrust, anxiety, fear.
The challenges and rewards of D/s at a distance.
Getting into your community
When real life interferes with D/s
Sexual availability in D/s dynamics.
Intimacy is defined as a close personal relationship marked by deep affection and love, frequently characterized by depth of knowledge and attention.
Sometimes it feels like we have an overwhelming need for labels.
This is your life; give your precious commodities your way!