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How to tell your children by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Many parents have questions about how and when to inform their children about their erotic power exchange emotions.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2491 Read Count: 63
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

When applied with care and knowledge, impulses such as pain, stress, fear and humiliation - in the right context - can and will create a chain reaction or hormonal rush


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3137 Read Count: 77
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Fostering Dominants by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

We need to start supporting, fostering, being a patron of Dominants because they are so cynical that they can't recognize true submission any more and some tips on how to do so.


Categories: Dominance, Submission, The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2605 Read Count: 2182
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

My most cited piece. This was an article I wrote in protest against some of the ugliness, visciousness and and stupidity I started seeing in the DC scene in the wake of the Black Rose Tenth Anniversary Celebration. Little did I know how universal the problems were in the community at large.....    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6118 Read Count: 530
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.


Categories: Dominance > Self Training, The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2264 Read Count: 1561
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

Rules I learned by observing people I respect as photographers, riggers, and tops.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 877 Read Count: 714
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
On Energy Play by Call Me Sid Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

There is more than just power that is exchanged in what it is that we do.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 926 Read Count: 887
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Deviants in BDSM by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Since the BDSM community is so diverse a subculture, are there people part of the BDSM culture that you(others) see as deviant? 


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 608 Read Count: 973
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
The New Ten Commandments by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The much anticipated, totally new, Ten Commandments, handed down to me from the supreme Uber Dom of the universe.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Humour, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 219 Read Count: 1154
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

There is cognitive challenge in reconciling roles with perceived power (dominants) and roles with perceived powerlessness (submission, bottoming).    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 962 Read Count: 1295
[Report This] Published: 10/25/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Summary:

Coming out as kinky.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1707 Read Count: 768
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

Sharing advice with the 'Newbs' that I wish I'd been given when first getting involved in this 'Lifestyle'.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2392 Read Count: 605
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

Spotting the signs and dealing with the aftereffects of being used by a predator in the BDSM lifesyle.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1439 Read Count: 763
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Who Are You? by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Defining Your Role Within The BDSM Realm


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1590 Read Count: 825
[Report This] Published: 09/09/2015 Updated: 10/04/2015
Writer’s Block by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Journals and Diaries, the benefits of submissive journalling.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1421 Read Count: 836
[Report This] Published: 09/09/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Top Hat and Tails: by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Instruction on the basics of formal protocol in a Don/sub relationship.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1899 Read Count: 827
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Summary:

A personal experience with harassment and tools to assist others overcome harassment n a D/s relationship. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2647 Read Count: 624
[Report This] Published: 08/16/2015 Updated: 08/21/2015
Choose Your Words Carefully by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

When you wish a specific behavior to occur you must use specific words. Don't vs. Stop, Nude vs. Naked, Humiliation VS Degradation, Dehumanization VS Depersonalization, Want VS Need


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 5 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2383 Read Count: 5501
[Report This] Published: 08/19/2015 Updated: 08/19/2015
Summary:

As you can see there are a lot of hidden meanings in different phrases and statements that individuals use and they may or may not realize the full weight of what they are stating.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 981 Read Count: 1030
[Report This] Published: 08/15/2015 Updated: 08/18/2015
Primal by Carrotstick Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Helping those in the Kink community recognize and embrace Primals, and help other, unknowing, Primals to self-identify and realize they are not alone.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy, Primal/Pet
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2141 Read Count: 3324
[Report This] Published: 08/15/2015 Updated: 08/17/2015
Summary:

Corsetry's Place in the B&D Scene


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1424 Read Count: 2086
[Report This] Published: 03/22/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Summary:

Wanting to belong to the BDSM community often makes newbies forget about protecting themselves, first.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1468 Read Count: 2054
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2015 Updated: 01/23/2015
Fashion and the Scene by Sensuous Sadie Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Fetish wear: mandatory, on the cheap, and fun stuff


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 3 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3795 Read Count: 6773
[Report This] Published: 07/21/2014 Updated: 07/21/2014
Summary:

Despite being a whore in the bedroom, I am a lady in the parlor and I expect my men to be gentlemen. It's a rare and maybe even freaky expectation in these days, but one that shows respect not only for me, but for them.


Categories: Submission, The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1391 Read Count: 1533
[Report This] Published: 07/21/2014 Updated: 07/21/2014
Summary:

Please be careful about outing yourself, there can be serious consequences.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1769 Read Count: 1733
[Report This] Published: 07/20/2014 Updated: 07/21/2014
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