Have you told the people that you love that you're kinky? Why or why not? What are the pros and cons, how would you do it?
01/02/2022 kissa leads a discussion on Drop on another server.
12/10/22 kissa discusses red flags in the lifestyle and in chosing a partner.
3/18/23 Sid explores the reasons for and possible ways for an individual to bring forth their authentic selves within the lifestyle.
3/11/23 Sid talks about mental domination and submission and the connection between partners
11/16/22 Sero leads a discussion on how we can maintain a long distance relationship in BDSM.
11/5/22 Nimah (Ava) and Sid talk about Being Primal
Focusing on the difficulties that a Sadist faces from social implications and expectations to the risks we take on while we do what we do and how that can cause some difficulties in rationalizing doing what we do.
11/9 we'll have a chit-chat about Aftercare and Drop. Because these two things are so often talked about in relation to "sweet, delicate, helpless" submissives, we're going to make sure that we also talk about, as @Sid calls them, "Those Who have no Souls", Dominants.
10/29/22 We discuss using Botanicals in BDSM, including botanicals used for health reasons, safety precautions in BDSM, and the use of many plants, vegetables, herbs, weeds, and spices in giving pain.
10/26/22 Sweet Sass leads a discussion on High Protocol - the whys and wherefores and also dips into mentoring
11/2/22 Sero discusses various aspects of consent.
Polygon? Polynomial? Polyphenols? Poly wanna cracker? On 10/12 at 9PM ET, Sero leads a chat on Being Polyamorous that's not just for poly people! Yes, we know that polyamory is just wrong and should be wither multiamory or polyphilia but let's just go with it on Wednesday evening!
Sero talks about Jealousy in the Life and Lovestyle of BDSM. 10/19/22
SummersKiss talks about Establishing Healthy Boundaries. 10/22/22
Every adult has gone through some form of trauma and has had varying success with healing that trauma. On 10/15/22 The Kink Shrink talks about healing and managing trauma.
9/24/22 Topic Chat on How to be a Dominant
9/17/22 Topic Chat What We Want to Tell Our Younger Selves
10/5/22 Discussion about Vetting New Partners
10/8/22 discussion of Trust in BDSM
Long Distance Relationships are hard. D/s LDRs can be a lot harder.
Theoretical consent and its real life applications.
Hot? Cold? Both? Is it burning? Is it freezing? Talk about Temperature Play with Kate Wolf(Owner) and Kitten[Collared]! 9/6/20
The definition of vetting is simply: "make a careful and critical examination of (something)" in this case, it's a potential partner.
The Kink Shrink visits to talk all about degradation and how it differs from humiliation. This is edge play. 9/20/20