Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Stories
Summary:

You are either married, living together or have been long-time companions in some other form of relationship. Suddenly, you start to develop erotic power exchange emotions and fantasies. Or your partner does. Now what?


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 1375 Read Count: 43
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
How safe are safewords? by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Is a safeword really a good safety measure? And another question: how safe is a safeword? And finally: isn't the BDSM community just a bunch of parrots, all repeating the same dogmas over and over again?    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 696 Read Count: 45
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/15/2018
Summary:

Please give this post some thought. Get to know your potential bottoms well enough to engage in these type conversations. Whatever you do, have some "Plan B" that will allow a rope bottom to get loose in the event of an emergency.    


Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 770 Read Count: 635
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

The most important thing of all is the accountability of the individuals engaged in the activity itself.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1375 Read Count: 14
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

This is an article I wrote in 1997 addressing what I felt to be inadequacies in SM's most famous rubric.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3181 Read Count: 661
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
The No Limits Fallacy by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

How many times have you come across someone (it doesn't matter Dom/mme, sub, Master, slave, switch, Top, bottom) that either claims to be or is seeking someone that is "no limits"?


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 493 Read Count: 1293
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Play Table by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 1]
Summary:

This is the Play Table that I compiled and use in my House.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Safety, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 708 Read Count: 687
[Report This] Published: 10/24/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

There are two viewpoints on personal safty in the lifestyle, but they aren't mutualy exclusive, no matter what some claim.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1319 Read Count: 732
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

I believe in the combination of both S.S.C. (Safe, Sane, Consensual) and R.A.C.K. (Risk, Aware/Assessed, Consensual, Kink).    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 747 Read Count: 1148
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist


Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1997 Read Count: 3519
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

Consent is only part of the triad of SSC. It all matters.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 822 Read Count: 643
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Whip Me, Beat Me, Take Me Home by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A guideline for first time meetings.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 400 Read Count: 699
[Report This] Published: 09/10/2015 Updated: 10/04/2015
BDSM Safety by Jonathan Wyrd Brazell Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary: Past Featured Story

Life is not without risk, and our lifestyle even more so. Everyday we risk exposure, injury, emotional damage, but we accept those risks. Learning how to be safer and deal with possible problems is a major undertaking not to be ignored. A wide ranging introduction to safety practices in several different BDSM activies and venues.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management, Online D/s > Moving Offline, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Blood Play, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Electro Play, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Fire, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Wax
Characters: None
Content Notes: Blood, Bondage, Edge, Electro, For Beginners, How-To, Humiliation, Impact, Online, Safety, Sensation, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 16 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4670 Read Count: 49236
[Report This] Published: 01/26/2015 Updated: 02/02/2015
Summary: Consent is what elevates BDSM play between willing adults above abuse. Abuse is both wrong and illegal. Here I analyze and define the terms in the now-familiar BDSM slogan "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1561 Read Count: 20
[Report This] Published: 07/14/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

An alternative to "SSC", "Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink"


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 488 Read Count: 1049
[Report This] Published: 07/13/2014 Updated: 07/13/2014
On Safety by Jay Wiseman Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Techniques used in evaluating risk and risk management


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1616 Read Count: 1574
[Report This] Published: 07/11/2014 Updated: 07/11/2014
Safe, Sane, and Consensual by Tamar Kay Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The three tenants of BDSM


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 622 Read Count: 1036
[Report This] Published: 07/11/2014 Updated: 07/11/2014
Red Flags by redhdlilone Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Danger signs in forming new relationships and meeting play partners.


Categories: Online D/s > Moving Offline, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Safety, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 607 Read Count: 1487
[Report This] Published: 07/10/2014 Updated: 07/10/2014
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