Busting some common BDSM myths.
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 572 Read Count: 678
Titles - B
Stories
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 572 Read Count: 678
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 572 Read Count: 678
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 18 Read Count: 692
Experience, giving, and receiving.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 18 Read Count: 692
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Bathroom Business
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 568 Read Count: 759
Stop suggesting enemas!
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Bathroom Business
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 568 Read Count: 759
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Animal Play
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 303 Read Count: 546
About bunny play.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Animal Play
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 303 Read Count: 546
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
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Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 758 Read Count: 664
Being Submissive After Abuse
Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 758 Read Count: 664
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 58 Read Count: 596
What's the difference between a sadist and a BDSM sadist.
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 58 Read Count: 596
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1648 Read Count: 738
Fainting or blacking out (known medically as "syncope") is not infrequent in a play setting, especially when rope suspension is involved. In the majority of cases, the fainter will recover quickly. Don't panic! At an event or a venue where medical staff is available, immediately call them if someone faints.
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1648 Read Count: 738
[Report This] Published: 11/30/2018 Updated: 11/30/2018
Breath Control Play — A long and technical outline of practices and risks by Stefanos and Shay Rated: Extreme [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2423 Read Count: 46
In preparation for being on a breath control play panel at a local BDSM club, I organized this outline, and thought I would post it as well.
This writing represents ONLY my own thoughts and accumulation of research (my resources are varied and include everything from medical articles to Wikipedia to anatomy texts to my general nursing knowledge/experience) and not those of any of the other panelists or the SF Citadel. It is not in any way intended as an endorsement of breath control play of any kind (which is risky, dontchaknow).
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2423 Read Count: 46
[Report This] Published: 11/30/2018 Updated: 11/30/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3416 Read Count: 5
Things to consider when doing breath play
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3416 Read Count: 5
[Report This] Published: 11/30/2018 Updated: 11/30/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2040 Read Count: 1684
This essay offers a possible explanation as to why some people seem to be at higher risk of dying suddenly from being choked than other people are.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2040 Read Count: 1684
[Report This] Published: 11/25/2018 Updated: 11/29/2018
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 967 Read Count: 845
The energy generated by WITWD.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 967 Read Count: 845
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2018 Updated: 10/19/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 606 Read Count: 699
What is breathplay?
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 606 Read Count: 699
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2018 Updated: 10/18/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Equipment
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1198 Read Count: 760
Various things you may want to consider for your toybox.
Categories: How-To > Equipment
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1198 Read Count: 760
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
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Categories: On and Off Gor > The Gorean World
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 4 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 703 Read Count: 2735
About the Builders, by quotations
Categories: On and Off Gor > The Gorean World
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 4 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 703 Read Count: 2735
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2018 Updated: 10/08/2018
Summary:
Categories: On and Off Gor > The Gorean World
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3275 Read Count: 435
The Books as described.
Categories: On and Off Gor > The Gorean World
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3275 Read Count: 435
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2018 Updated: 10/08/2018
Summary:
Categories: On and Off Gor > The Gorean World
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 9 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1734 Read Count: 7917
Gorean Bathing, as quoted
Categories: On and Off Gor > The Gorean World
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 9 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1734 Read Count: 7917
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2018 Updated: 10/08/2018
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Categories: On and Off Gor > The Gorean World
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 8 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1208 Read Count: 5784
Banking on Gor, as explained in quotations
Categories: On and Off Gor > The Gorean World
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 8 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1208 Read Count: 5784
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2018 Updated: 10/08/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Equipment
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2340 Read Count: 1309
A light hearted guide to filling a kinky toybox on a budget.
Categories: How-To > Equipment
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2340 Read Count: 1309
[Report This] Published: 07/26/2018 Updated: 07/26/2018
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2193 Read Count: 1122
SSC vs RACK.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2193 Read Count: 1122
[Report This] Published: 07/26/2018 Updated: 07/26/2018
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Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6263 Read Count: 7
You made them, & you can break them.
Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6263 Read Count: 7
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2018 Updated: 07/15/2018
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4903 Read Count: 24
Read this with your lady & you'll thank the author.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4903 Read Count: 24
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2018 Updated: 07/15/2018
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 31 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 496 Read Count: 3135
Ties and applied techniques for cock and ball bondage with Tony Buff and Derek da Silva. Illustrated.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 31 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 496 Read Count: 3135
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 895 Read Count: 2263
A poem I wrote while inspired by Bob Flannigan's "Why?"
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 895 Read Count: 2263
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Humour
Characters: None
Content Notes: Humour
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 201 Read Count: 1370
Somethings need to be written on the blackboard. A lot.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Humour
Characters: None
Content Notes: Humour
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 201 Read Count: 1370
[Report This] Published: 10/21/2015 Updated: 11/01/2015
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2122 Read Count: 1702
Bondage safety hints, tips, tricks, and musts.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2122 Read Count: 1702
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015