Your wife/girlfriend just dropped the bomb that she wants to be dominated. The very first thing to do is to Read This.
A communication style/tool for submissives to share anger while still remaining in subissive state.
by Lapp Topp Everyone's got a type. These are a few of them.
Clearing the confusion about the relationship between pain, punishment, and submission.
A Dominant male's view of the D/s Lifestyle
Some thoughts on the true meaning behind the much-heard phrase, "submission is a gift."
jade's insightful and very personal answer to the question, "What should my goal be...?"
A slave girl's duties are exquisite beauty and absolute obedience. She is to serve, please and be pleasing to all Free Persons. What does it really mean? Are there exceptions?
Gor was a harsh world, one in which the laws made life a very black and white existence. You either are...or you are not. And every action followed with it a consequence, whether positive or negative. This essay is going to examine the topic of actions and consequences within Gor.
Knowing the difference between the real deal and a poseur so you can keep safe.
(Version 1.4, written 8/14/03) What to expect at a munch, and some dos and do nots to get around with other lifestylers.
Learn to recognize the snerts, horny net geeks, control freak, and outright predators online and when you move offline.
About switches and the sometimes hassle they get.
A submissive attends his Lady as she readies Herself.
a sample, red silk serve
A slave begs for her Beloved's collar.
Any "Old Guard" which existed at the time did not widely see itself as such. Instead, they were more like, as the song lyric goes "just a bunch of people, doin' the best they could."
Despite being a whore in the bedroom, I am a lady in the parlor and I expect my men to be gentlemen. It's a rare and maybe even freaky expectation in these days, but one that shows respect not only for me, but for them.
What is Topping from the Bottom, is it ever a good thing and can it be stopped?
Sometimes punishment is needed. Sadie explins how and why.
Size acceptance in the Lifestyle
Some advice for a woman whose boyfriend is much more experienced, but whom she wants to learn to dominate
Is there a standard meaning to this act?
