Ms Monster talks about Edgeplay in chat on Sept 11, 2019
Can't Drive 55? Knowing Your Limits: How and When to Discuss Them by Ms Monster
Ms Monster and Serrian discuss how we all know how BDSM is treated by film, literature and the media. Tonight, we are going to explore a little bit of that compared to real life and our experiences within the community.
Do you know the real meaning of Macho? Read on...
Creative Toys that may not come from the local sex tpy shop.
Yes, Bootblacking certainly CAN be a fetish. But it is not exclusively one.
Just as there are many different types of gags, there are many different emotions that I experience while gagged.
Protocol, restrictions, runaways, and training.
This is supposed to be fun and feel good. Remember?
As someone who has been a unicorn, and would be again under the right circumstances, here is some information and guidelines that may be helpful
My acronym for aftercare is SHOCK
It seems that when we reach a certain degree of intimacy we start allowing ourselves some behaviors that bring conflict and emotional damage. Then, perhaps what we should do is to learn to recognize those behaviors and ways to avoid them.
How can you tell if a man is dominant in a few conversations?
What is a metatalk and what is the purpose of them?
I have never really liked using traditional submissive positional training when it comes to pets, specifically kittens.
While sadomasochism can be justified by the ability of pain to enhance pleasure and the happiness brought by the endorphin high, the Dominance/submission (D/s) side of the BDSM equation is not so easily explained
How to help a vanilla boyfriend turn into a Dominant.
What and why of a protection agreement.
Being Gorean on Earth
Build BDSM relationship on a foundation of communication and "...is it normal for Master's to have more than two subs?? and be secretive about it?..."
One of the most frequent questions I get is, first, what is a Bootblack. The second most frequent question is, why do we do it.
Providing those CG/l relationships who enjoy ritual in their dynamics a new element without having to feel as if it is traditional slave positional training
The do's and Dont's for that first time spanking.
Why am I attracted to bootblacking.
"Getting even" at it's best...a la SAM.
by Lapp Topp. Get up on the wrong side of the rack this morning? A little miffed after that 12 hour bondage scene yesterday? Not getting enough of the whip? Perhaps you are just feeling kinda SAMmy? These are the top ten ways to really show your dom/me how you really feel.