I also said when not if, could it be an if at all?
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1018 Read Count: 770
Titles
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When 'should' you disclose you have a mental illness by TheKinkShrink Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1018 Read Count: 770
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1018 Read Count: 770
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 251 Read Count: 1032
As part of your negotiation, ask this question.
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 251 Read Count: 1032
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Why we can NEVER give full consent as we don't get consequence by TheKinkShrink Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 325 Read Count: 994
To fully consent, one must understand and anticipate all of the potential consequences.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 325 Read Count: 994
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1643 Read Count: 2123
One of the most fascinating aspects of BDSM is its ability to induce altered states of consciousness.
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1643 Read Count: 2123
[Report This] Published: 02/10/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
You may not be submissive however you are A submissive! by TheKinkShrink Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 319 Read Count: 1205
Just because you don't always submit, does not mean you are not A submissive
Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 319 Read Count: 1205
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 987 Read Count: 1001
Consent is when a person freely agrees to something. When it comes to sex, consent is mandatory, every time.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 987 Read Count: 1001
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1385 Read Count: 3488
Concerning Gaslighting
Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1385 Read Count: 3488
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 822 Read Count: 1683
When you hear "spanking", you probably think of it in terms of punishment. Spankings can actually be more than that: punishment, funishment, and therapeutic.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 822 Read Count: 1683
[Report This] Published: 12/02/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
The 6th amendment and the BDSM/kink/fetish community (aka sexual minorities) by mxponysyn Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 578 Read Count: 999
The 6th amendment and the BDSM/kink/fetish community (aka sexual minorities)
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 578 Read Count: 999
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 363 Read Count: 956
A natural Dom has it come 'naturally' to him
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 363 Read Count: 956
[Report This] Published: 02/02/2019 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Safe Words
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 587 Read Count: 1047
Safewording isn't the end of the world
Categories: How-To > Safe Words
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 587 Read Count: 1047
[Report This] Published: 12/19/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 998 Read Count: 992
There's a widespread school of thought in BDSM that advocates punishment to correct misbehaviour on submissives. I don't believe it works, because punishment doesn't change behaviour.
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 998 Read Count: 992
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM History
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 932 Read Count: 971
A history of old European BDSM Houses.
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM History
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 932 Read Count: 971
[Report This] Published: 12/17/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 197 Read Count: 1230
Do not do plastic bag breath play!
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Breath Control
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 197 Read Count: 1230
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 158 Read Count: 1063
A few tips to keep the spark alive and soothing for when you Dom is stressed.
Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 158 Read Count: 1063
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:
Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 416 Read Count: 1073
You have got to learn the difference between wolves and puppies.
Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 416 Read Count: 1073
[Report This] Published: 12/27/2018 Updated: 02/02/2019
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 568 Read Count: 1181
Things I Need from You as my submissive
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 568 Read Count: 1181
[Report This] Published: 01/27/2019 Updated: 02/02/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 757 Read Count: 1776
What is and how to handle Domspace.
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 757 Read Count: 1776
[Report This] Published: 02/02/2019 Updated: 02/02/2019
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Daddy & Mommy Dom/mes, Submission > Being a Little
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1543 Read Count: 9081
Like many forms of power exchange or BDSM play, age play creates a fantasy, it is the avenue for pleasure. Sometimes though, there are times when age play is not a healthy form of play, or engaging in it is not a healthy activity.
Categories: Dominance > Daddy & Mommy Dom/mes, Submission > Being a Little
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1543 Read Count: 9081
[Report This] Published: 02/02/2019 Updated: 02/02/2019
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1153 Read Count: 978
Hints on how to do the thing, for new dominant types.
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1153 Read Count: 978
[Report This] Published: 02/02/2019 Updated: 02/02/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1068 Read Count: 2430
Understanding subdrop and dealing with aftercare as a Service Top.
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1068 Read Count: 2430
[Report This] Published: 02/02/2019 Updated: 02/02/2019
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 241 Read Count: 3311
Giving The Silent Treatment.
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 241 Read Count: 3311
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Summary:
Categories: Online D/s > Moving Offline
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Online, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 301 Read Count: 2589
If he sounds too perfect online, ask some questions.
Categories: Online D/s > Moving Offline
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Online, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 301 Read Count: 2589
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 607 Read Count: 762
Need and trust in D/s.
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 607 Read Count: 762
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 8 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 21097 Read Count: 70984
Why are people into spanking?
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 8 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 21097 Read Count: 70984
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019