Stories
Summary:

Learning how to get a Dominant's/submissive's attention takes patience, practice, and restraint.


Categories: Online D/s > Getting It On-Line, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 746 Read Count: 43
[Report This] Published: 06/30/2018 Updated: 06/30/2018
Summary:

You are either married, living together or have been long-time companions in some other form of relationship. Suddenly, you start to develop erotic power exchange emotions and fantasies. Or your partner does. Now what?


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 1375 Read Count: 43
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

Replying to a personal ad, or showing someone you're interested in him/her, has become a lost art.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1200 Read Count: 565
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

The bond between a Dominant type, and a submissive type happens over time, and very slowly in most cases.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1287 Read Count: 467
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

You do not need to have a Mentor or Protector. You really don't, if you want one though, you need to have some basic understanding of a few things.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1324 Read Count: 877
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

A response to someone who was looking to figure out who they are as a pet. However some of the information here can also be used as resources for owners to find their perfect human pets.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1162 Read Count: 877
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Summary:

Poly Relationships within the BDSM lifestyle.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1699 Read Count: 1045
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2015 Updated: 10/18/2015
Safety by XlfodX Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

How to be safe when finding a male-dominant play partner    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 417 Read Count: 20
[Report This] Published: 10/03/2015 Updated: 10/04/2015
Summary:

"How can I find a master capable of doing all of that?"    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 782 Read Count: 526
[Report This] Published: 07/27/2015 Updated: 08/27/2015
Summary:

Finding the right submissive or slave involves figuring out what you need, first, then going where they graze in herds.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2167 Read Count: 642
[Report This] Published: 08/17/2015 Updated: 08/21/2015
First Contact by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Introductions and Pre-Meeting Behaviors


Categories: Online D/s > Protocol, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2900 Read Count: 464
[Report This] Published: 08/14/2015 Updated: 08/21/2015
Summary:

A profoundly submissive girl looking for APE asked me how she could go about finding an owner. This is my reply.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 531 Read Count: 603
[Report This] Published: 07/27/2015 Updated: 08/12/2015
Summary:

A girl who identifies herself as a slave, married to a vanilla man, asked me whether it is still possible for her to find a dominant to control her. This is my reply to her.


Categories: Dominance, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 514 Read Count: 823
[Report This] Published: 07/27/2015 Updated: 08/12/2015
Summary:

Submissives seeking a master normally head out into the vast dom-wilderness armed with their knowledge of what a master should and shouldn't be like, and perhaps a list of needs or specific traits they are looking for in him and end up heartbroken and alone after a few weeks or months.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1208 Read Count: 763
[Report This] Published: 07/27/2015 Updated: 08/05/2015
Summary:

A girl who identifies as a slave looking for a TPE M/s relationship has been chatting with several prospective dominants. She asked me which questions she should be asking them. This is my reply to her.


Categories: Submission, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 346 Read Count: 751
[Report This] Published: 07/27/2015 Updated: 07/27/2015
On Petitions by Ms Margo Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Or How do I Get a Mistress to Accept my Petition?


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1062 Read Count: 785
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
On Patience by Ms Margo Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Or, How Do I Get A Dom, Anyway?


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 973 Read Count: 1044
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Summary:

How can you tell if s/he is right for you?


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1607 Read Count: 777
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Summary:

Several excellent questions to help get to know a potential problem.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4025 Read Count: 1311
[Report This] Published: 03/22/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Summary:

Some things to look for in a dominant.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3312 Read Count: 1574
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Summary:

What role do they fill? Are you being had? From the April 98 issue of the D/s Times.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2802 Read Count: 1797
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Summary:

Learn to recognize the snerts, horny net geeks, control freak, and outright predators online and when you move offline.


Categories: Online D/s > Moving Offline, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4127 Read Count: 53
[Report This] Published: 08/01/2014 Updated: 08/01/2014
Summary:

A column from 1996, musing on new Dominants vs. the more experienced


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1378 Read Count: 1143
[Report This] Published: 07/21/2014 Updated: 07/21/2014
Summary:

Is he a Dom? What are the signs?


Categories: Dominance, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1958 Read Count: 1569
[Report This] Published: 07/17/2014 Updated: 07/17/2014
Summary:

Going slow in the lifesyle when every emotion tells us to rush headfirst into bliss


Categories: Online D/s > Moving Offline, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1528 Read Count: 1870
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2014 Updated: 07/17/2014
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