Content Notes: Safety
Stories
Summary:

Concerning Gaslighting


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1385 Read Count: 1
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:

If he sounds too perfect online, ask some questions. 


Categories: Online D/s > Moving Offline
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Online, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 301 Read Count: 38
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
MRC by mxponysyn Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

MRC as a safety anagram.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 534 Read Count: 15
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Summary:

"What are some good questions to ask a prospective Dom to help spot the fakes and the predators?"    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management, Online D/s > Moving Offline
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 400 Read Count: 19
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Summary:

When beginning a relationship, submissives and littles must go slow and go smart. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1877 Read Count: 11
[Report This] Published: 12/26/2018 Updated: 01/04/2019
About Plugs by DDlgdoodles Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

What are buttplugs made of? What types of lube can be used with them?


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex Toys
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Primal/Pet, Safety, Sex Toys
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 301 Read Count: 3
[Report This] Published: 12/02/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
Summary:

Fainting or blacking out (known medically as "syncope") is not infrequent in a play setting, especially when rope suspension is involved. In the majority of cases, the fainter will recover quickly. Don't panic! At an event or a venue where medical staff is available, immediately call them if someone faints.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1648 Read Count: 39
[Report This] Published: 11/30/2018 Updated: 11/30/2018
Summary:

Melanoma is an increasingly common form of life-threatening cancer, usually found on the skin, and known for its early and rapid tendency to spread to other organs. Melanoma is frequently found on the back -- a location often whipped during SM play. The back is also a location not easy for a person to examine themselves. Studies have shown that manipulation of a melanoma (and a whip stroke, spank, or other type of blow would, obviously, be a form of "manipulation") definitely increases the number of cancer cells that break off and begin to spread to other parts of the body. It is therefore essential that SM practitioners know how to spot possible melanomas, both on themselves and on their partners, to avoid whipping or otherwise disturbing melanomas, and to  receive early, definitive medical diagnosis and treatment.     


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1991 Read Count: 272
[Report This] Published: 05/20/2018 Updated: 05/27/2018
How to handle a seizure by Jay Wiseman Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

This article will deal primarily with a very common and dramatic type of seizure often called the grand mal seizure, both in vanilla and BDSM settings. 


Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6148 Read Count: 230
[Report This] Published: 05/20/2018 Updated: 05/27/2018
Summary:

This text has been prepared by an M.D. with a personal and professional interest in D/s. It covers topics such as safer sex, preventing and treating injury, and psychological safety. It is offered freely to the D/s community in the hopes of assisting others to find joy and fulfillment in a safe and sane environment.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2837 Read Count: 303
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

Not everything you find on the Internet, when looking for safety advice, is good information. Much of it in fact forms part of very persistent urban legends. Here is a simple list of first line safety issues: the myth as well as the facts.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2277 Read Count: 90
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/15/2018
Summary:

How to spot a faker.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1689 Read Count: 922
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
On Botanicals by Urticus Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Updated 5/5/16 Certain botanical irritants are very efficient at causing pain without damage or much effort. A discussion of using nettles, ginger, and peppers in play.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sensation, How-To > Equipment > Sensation Play
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1137 Read Count: 27
[Report This] Published: 06/13/2015 Updated: 05/26/2016
First Aid Kit Info by camilletoh Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

First aid kit contents and basic first aid tips.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1127 Read Count: 712
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

Regardless of what subject you're referring to or activity you're practicing, there are a number of very broad general principles that apply when it comes to safety. The most important features are knowledge & understanding, vigilance (or awareness), honesty, communication, critical thinking, and intention.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, How-To, Impact, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 902 Read Count: 20
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

Exploring The Dunning-Kruger effect in BDSM.


Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 962 Read Count: 1253
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Play Table by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

This is the Play Table that I compiled and use in my House.    


Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Safety, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 708 Read Count: 992
[Report This] Published: 10/24/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

I believe positive and responsible consent education is a constructive and effective tool to combat the sheer volume of occurrences of rape.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1564 Read Count: 869
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

In sub frenzy, the stupid decisions of the sub, result in the sub getting hurt. In Dom frenzy, the stupid decisions of the Dom, result in the sub getting hurt.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 810 Read Count: 1853
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Bondage Safety by Guilty Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Bondage safety hints, tips, tricks, and musts.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2122 Read Count: 840
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

A few things I have learned about pegging.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1040 Read Count: 48
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2015 Updated: 10/18/2015
Safety by XlfodX Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

How to be safe when finding a male-dominant play partner    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 417 Read Count: 22
[Report This] Published: 10/03/2015 Updated: 10/04/2015
It's Raining Men by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Basics of Water Sports


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Bathroom Business
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1876 Read Count: 967
[Report This] Published: 09/09/2015 Updated: 09/09/2015
Interview Questions by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Questions for a submissive/bottom before a scene.


Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 233 Read Count: 969
[Report This] Published: 08/15/2015 Updated: 08/19/2015
Summary:

Some negotiation questions I use as a top to better learn about my bottoms, their character, and their interest in play.    


Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation, Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2384 Read Count: 42
[Report This] Published: 08/14/2015 Updated: 08/18/2015
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