Content Notes: For Beginners
Other Results: 2 Series
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It Ain't About the Dick by TheAustinDom Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Giving younger guys some advice on better sexual relationships with women.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2033 Read Count: 1
[Report This] Published: 05/27/2018 Updated: 05/27/2018
How to handle a seizure by Jay Wiseman Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

This article will deal primarily with a very common and dramatic type of seizure often called the grand mal seizure, both in vanilla and BDSM settings. 


Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6148 Read Count: 62
[Report This] Published: 05/20/2018 Updated: 05/27/2018
Summary:

This text has been prepared by an M.D. with a personal and professional interest in D/s. It covers topics such as safer sex, preventing and treating injury, and psychological safety. It is offered freely to the D/s community in the hopes of assisting others to find joy and fulfillment in a safe and sane environment.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2837 Read Count: 70
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
How to tell your children by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Many parents have questions about how and when to inform their children about their erotic power exchange emotions.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2491 Read Count: 25
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

When applied with care and knowledge, impulses such as pain, stress, fear and humiliation - in the right context - can and will create a chain reaction or hormonal rush


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3137 Read Count: 23
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

Although discriminatory legislation sometimes likes to let you believe otherwise, there are fundamental differences between erotic power exchange and domestic violence (abuse). Erotic power exchange should always be based on the VICSS-concept. Anything else is abuse.


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1394 Read Count: 24
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

This section of the professional information, deals with the tension between law enforcement and consensual erotic power exchange.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 9214 Read Count: 68
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

Since erotic power exchange is attracting more interest in society, it is only logical the phenomena gets increased media coverage. In addition, the current trend - especially in audiovisual media - to try and cover more eroticism in general contributes extra to this trend


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1523 Read Count: 81
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

Basic information about BDSM for legal and law inforcement in the liht of recent publicity and opening viewpoints concerning BDSM.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4204 Read Count: 24
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
How safe are safewords? by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Is a safeword really a good safety measure? And another question: how safe is a safeword? And finally: isn't the BDSM community just a bunch of parrots, all repeating the same dogmas over and over again?    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 696 Read Count: 27
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/15/2018
Summary:

Not everything you find on the Internet, when looking for safety advice, is good information. Much of it in fact forms part of very persistent urban legends. Here is a simple list of first line safety issues: the myth as well as the facts.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2277 Read Count: 23
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/15/2018
Introduction to Submission by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Kim discusses what a submissive is and does.


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2789 Read Count: 272
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
What Is BDSM by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The basics and definitions.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1809 Read Count: 171
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
Manners and Etiquette by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A fast guide to the rules and protocols you might encounter in a leather/BDSM/fet gathering with some do's and don'ts.


Categories: How-To > Protocol
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1788 Read Count: 1554
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

Replying to a personal ad, or showing someone you're interested in him/her, has become a lost art.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1200 Read Count: 496
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Some Thoughts on Consent... by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Within the BDSM Scene there is a lot of conversation about consent. And there should be.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 992 Read Count: 1095
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Scene Etiquette by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

General Kink Etiquette- These are some basic guidelines to follow.    


Categories: How-To > Protocol
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3108 Read Count: 980
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

Please give this post some thought. Get to know your potential bottoms well enough to engage in these type conversations. Whatever you do, have some "Plan B" that will allow a rope bottom to get loose in the event of an emergency.    


Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 770 Read Count: 530
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

Communication techniques for use during play    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2230 Read Count: 571
[Report This] Published: 05/26/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Singletail Semantics by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A single tail(ed whip) is any tapered, braided whip.    


Categories: How-To > Equipment > Whips
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 608 Read Count: 1047
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
First Aid Kit Info by camilletoh Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

First aid kit contents and basic first aid tips.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1127 Read Count: 499
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Being Leather by Chris M Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A poem I wrote while inspired by Bob Flannigan's "Why?"    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 895 Read Count: 670
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle, Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2264 Read Count: 1068
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

Rules I learned by observing people I respect as photographers, riggers, and tops.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 877 Read Count: 483
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

You do not need to have a Mentor or Protector. You really don't, if you want one though, you need to have some basic understanding of a few things.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1324 Read Count: 775
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
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