Content Notes: For Beginners
Other Results: 2 Series
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Summary:

This is Part 4 in the column series Where Do I Start? for novices to the BDSM scene


Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive, The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: Where Do I Start? for novices to the BDSM scene
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1907 Read Count: 1862
[Report This] Published: 07/21/2014 Updated: 11/03/2018
Why is it so hard... by Theodore Dumas Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Why is it so hard for a man to connect with a woman within the lifestyle?


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 781 Read Count: 6
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2018 Updated: 10/19/2018
Summary:

Slow down and other stuff.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 980 Read Count: 27
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2018 Updated: 10/19/2018
Summary:

The definition for edge play varies from individual to individual, each person has his or her interpretation of what edge play truly is. For some things this may be odd, but not for edge play, let me explain    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1024 Read Count: 12
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

A gentle introduction to D/s play and some tips to get started.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5107 Read Count: 9
[Report This] Published: 10/10/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Finding a Dominant Woman by Author Unknown Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A how-to


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 853 Read Count: 7
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Domination and Submission by Steve Pavlina Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Once you get past the socially conditioned attitude that D/s is somehow naughty or deviant, you'll find that it has a tremendous amount to do with personal development.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3195 Read Count: 4
[Report This] Published: 10/10/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

 The point of playing the roles of the Dominant and the submissive    


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2905 Read Count: 4
[Report This] Published: 10/10/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

A list and description of household staff and their duties


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 951 Read Count: 8
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Choosing A Master/Mistress by TorqueDom Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Advice on choosing a Dominant


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 742 Read Count: 7
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
BDSM Toybox by Author Unknown Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Various things you may want to consider for your toybox.


Categories: How-To > Equipment
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1198 Read Count: 15
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Aftercare by Author Unknown Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Why aftercare?


Categories: How-To > Aftercare
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 793 Read Count: 14
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

A submissive bill of rights


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 756 Read Count: 19
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

Different meanings of various collars that you may run across.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3032 Read Count: 6
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

The dominatrix basics for first timers.    


Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1774 Read Count: 110
[Report This] Published: 07/26/2018 Updated: 07/26/2018
It Ain't About the Dick by TheAustinDom Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Giving younger guys some advice on better sexual relationships with women.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2033 Read Count: 2
[Report This] Published: 05/27/2018 Updated: 05/27/2018
How to handle a seizure by Jay Wiseman Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

This article will deal primarily with a very common and dramatic type of seizure often called the grand mal seizure, both in vanilla and BDSM settings. 


Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6148 Read Count: 127
[Report This] Published: 05/20/2018 Updated: 05/27/2018
Summary:

This text has been prepared by an M.D. with a personal and professional interest in D/s. It covers topics such as safer sex, preventing and treating injury, and psychological safety. It is offered freely to the D/s community in the hopes of assisting others to find joy and fulfillment in a safe and sane environment.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2837 Read Count: 166
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
How to tell your children by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Many parents have questions about how and when to inform their children about their erotic power exchange emotions.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2491 Read Count: 60
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

When applied with care and knowledge, impulses such as pain, stress, fear and humiliation - in the right context - can and will create a chain reaction or hormonal rush


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3137 Read Count: 71
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

Although discriminatory legislation sometimes likes to let you believe otherwise, there are fundamental differences between erotic power exchange and domestic violence (abuse). Erotic power exchange should always be based on the VICSS-concept. Anything else is abuse.


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1394 Read Count: 70
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

This section of the professional information, deals with the tension between law enforcement and consensual erotic power exchange.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 9214 Read Count: 179
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

Since erotic power exchange is attracting more interest in society, it is only logical the phenomena gets increased media coverage. In addition, the current trend - especially in audiovisual media - to try and cover more eroticism in general contributes extra to this trend


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1523 Read Count: 132
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

Basic information about BDSM for legal and law inforcement in the liht of recent publicity and opening viewpoints concerning BDSM.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4204 Read Count: 53
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
How safe are safewords? by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Is a safeword really a good safety measure? And another question: how safe is a safeword? And finally: isn't the BDSM community just a bunch of parrots, all repeating the same dogmas over and over again?    


Categories: How-To > Safe Words
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 696 Read Count: 65
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/15/2018
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