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Summary:

It is such a complex biochemical process that it would be good for us to understand.    


Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1878 Read Count: 1
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Basic BDSM Transaction Types by Julian Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Experience, giving, and receiving. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 18 Read Count: 0
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Shitty Subs by instructor144 Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

All we ever hear about are shitty Doms, fake Doms, predatory Doms. There are some pretty crummy subs out there, too.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1144 Read Count: 15
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Spotting a Narcissist by delightfulsubgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Spotting a Narcissist


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1895 Read Count: 14
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Summary:

What's the difference between a sadist and a BDSM sadist. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 58 Read Count: 5
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
“Funishment” by instructor144 Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The difference between Punishment and Funishment


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 202 Read Count: 3
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/01/2019
Summary:

A few basic principles used to denote your availability to the men around you    


Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1636 Read Count: 23
[Report This] Published: 12/17/2018 Updated: 12/17/2018
Summary:

Fainting or blacking out (known medically as "syncope") is not infrequent in a play setting, especially when rope suspension is involved. In the majority of cases, the fainter will recover quickly. Don't panic! At an event or a venue where medical staff is available, immediately call them if someone faints.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1648 Read Count: 22
[Report This] Published: 11/30/2018 Updated: 11/30/2018
Summary:

This is Part 4 in the column series Where Do I Start? for novices to the BDSM scene


Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive, The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: Where Do I Start? for novices to the BDSM scene
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1907 Read Count: 2053
[Report This] Published: 07/21/2014 Updated: 11/03/2018
Why is it so hard... by Theodore Dumas Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Why is it so hard for a man to connect with a woman within the lifestyle?


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 781 Read Count: 23
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2018 Updated: 10/19/2018
Summary:

Slow down and other stuff.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 980 Read Count: 72
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2018 Updated: 10/19/2018
Summary:

The definition for edge play varies from individual to individual, each person has his or her interpretation of what edge play truly is. For some things this may be odd, but not for edge play, let me explain    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge, For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1024 Read Count: 30
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

A gentle introduction to D/s play and some tips to get started.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5107 Read Count: 26
[Report This] Published: 10/10/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Finding a Dominant Woman by Author Unknown Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A how-to


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 853 Read Count: 25
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Domination and Submission by Steve Pavlina Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Once you get past the socially conditioned attitude that D/s is somehow naughty or deviant, you'll find that it has a tremendous amount to do with personal development.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3195 Read Count: 20
[Report This] Published: 10/10/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

 The point of playing the roles of the Dominant and the submissive    


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2905 Read Count: 21
[Report This] Published: 10/10/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

A list and description of household staff and their duties


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 951 Read Count: 42
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Choosing A Master/Mistress by TorqueDom Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Advice on choosing a Dominant


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 742 Read Count: 41
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
BDSM Toybox by Author Unknown Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Various things you may want to consider for your toybox.


Categories: How-To > Equipment
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1198 Read Count: 44
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Aftercare by Author Unknown Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Why aftercare?


Categories: How-To > Aftercare
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 793 Read Count: 47
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

A submissive bill of rights


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 756 Read Count: 46
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

Different meanings of various collars that you may run across.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3032 Read Count: 21
[Report This] Published: 10/08/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Summary:

The dominatrix basics for first timers.    


Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1774 Read Count: 184
[Report This] Published: 07/26/2018 Updated: 07/26/2018
It Ain't About the Dick by TheAustinDom Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Giving younger guys some advice on better sexual relationships with women.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2033 Read Count: 2
[Report This] Published: 05/27/2018 Updated: 05/27/2018
How to handle a seizure by Jay Wiseman Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

This article will deal primarily with a very common and dramatic type of seizure often called the grand mal seizure, both in vanilla and BDSM settings. 


Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6148 Read Count: 217
[Report This] Published: 05/20/2018 Updated: 05/27/2018
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