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Introduction to Submission by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Kim discusses what a submissive is and does.


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2789 Read Count: 190
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
What Is BDSM by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The basics and definitions.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1809 Read Count: 126
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
Manners and Etiquette by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A fast guide to the rules and protocols you might encounter in a leather/BDSM/fet gathering with some do's and don'ts.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1788 Read Count: 1259
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

Replying to a personal ad, or showing someone you're interested in him/her, has become a lost art.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1200 Read Count: 399
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Some Thoughts on Consent... by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Within the BDSM Scene there is a lot of conversation about consent. And there should be.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 992 Read Count: 858
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Scene Etiquette by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

General Kink Etiquette- These are some basic guidelines to follow.    


Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3108 Read Count: 847
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

Please give this post some thought. Get to know your potential bottoms well enough to engage in these type conversations. Whatever you do, have some "Plan B" that will allow a rope bottom to get loose in the event of an emergency.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 770 Read Count: 412
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

Communication techniques for use during play    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin, The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2230 Read Count: 491
[Report This] Published: 05/26/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Singletail Semantics by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A single tail(ed whip) is any tapered, braided whip.    


Categories: How-To > Equipment > Whips
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 608 Read Count: 878
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
First Aid Kit Info by camilletoh Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

First aid kit contents and basic first aid tips.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1127 Read Count: 434
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Being Leather by Chris M Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A poem I wrote while inspired by Bob Flannigan's "Why?"    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 895 Read Count: 507
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle, Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2264 Read Count: 821
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

Rules I learned by observing people I respect as photographers, riggers, and tops.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 877 Read Count: 381
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

You do not need to have a Mentor or Protector. You really don't, if you want one though, you need to have some basic understanding of a few things.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1324 Read Count: 641
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Getting Freaky With It by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Definitions of Fetishes, Paraphilias, and Just Plain Freaky


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2181 Read Count: 986
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

These words are technically misnomers, which is to say that they are the best words to describe what you're doing, but that doesn't make them actually altogether accurate descriptions    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2095 Read Count: 386
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Summary:

If someone isn't directly giving me consent, then there is no consent in my opinion.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1195 Read Count: 361
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Summary:

A response to someone who was looking to figure out who they are as a pet. However some of the information here can also be used as resources for owners to find their perfect human pets.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1162 Read Count: 647
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Summary:

Coming out as kinky.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1707 Read Count: 441
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

Sharing advice with the 'Newbs' that I wish I'd been given when first getting involved in this 'Lifestyle'.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2392 Read Count: 367
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary: Please stop asking us to define you.
Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 928 Read Count: 224
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 10/18/2015
My advice to new subs by XlfodX Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Becoming a new sub is a lot more dangerous than becoming a Dom, the major risks being a new Dom is looking like an idiot and possibly hurting a sub, the risk being a sub is getting raped and abused.


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 483 Read Count: 597
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 10/10/2015
Summary:

General guidelines that have served me well for over a decade, but this essay isn't the end-all, be-all of etiquette.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3200 Read Count: 583
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/10/2015
BDSM 101 by Silje_Wyn Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Media is almost always an inaccurate in its representation of what actually transpires in BDSM activities, communities, events, or relationships.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5623 Read Count: 447
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/10/2015
Punishment by XlfodX Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Punishment vs. something else.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 281 Read Count: 648
[Report This] Published: 10/03/2015 Updated: 10/04/2015
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