Safe: secure from threat or danger, harm or loss. Except, there is no such security. D/s and BDSM exist where safety is tenuous at best. Assurances of complete safety simply cannot be given.
The practice of intentionally inflicting pain or sensation upon another human being as a means of obtaining sexual energy release predates Comte de Sade
When real life interferes with D/s
There are a number of characteristics which the submissive can and may display. Generally a majority of these traits will reveal in times of acute stress, anxiety, excitement or trauma
Submissive Frenzy is a state of mind that you may experience at any point in your submission.
The truth is domestic service submissives are often rare and it is difficult to find us.
The art of edge play
Kajira kissa explains and demonstrates the magic mirror method of finding your own beauty and grace while serving online. April 21, 2020.
"Shame means ‘I am bad' while guilt means ‘I did something bad'. Within the BDSM lifestyle, we can come across and work through shame on several fronts. Feb 25, 2020
3/29/20 by TLSCP on the Sissification of submissive males.
Things in the scene are not as simple as going into sub space and come out of it a happier person
If you only contact me so you can get your needs met... you are a self indulgent bottom.
Sometimes a Top needs to stop a scene.
Protocol, restrictions, runaways, and training.
A sample contract
by CrimsnLord, shared to CR by DomTX
Often in this community, you'll hear bandied about such terms as "sensory deprivation" and "sensation play". But what are they? Are they different, and if so, how? I'm going to attempt to unpack these two terms a little, and elaborate in detail, where in the past, I've mostly only heard vague references.
Submissive's Creed
About demisexuality.
What makes a good top and bottom?
June 16th, 2019 by Serrian
Discussion 4/7/18 12:00PM and 8:00PM Switches in BDSM, by andone and Ms Monster
Safety precautions for doing sounding.
Signs of a fantastic submissive/slave