Considering 24/7 dynamics
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Considering 24/7 dynamics
24/7 simply means 24 hours a day - 7 days a week. Not so simply, it usually means the desire for lifetime commitment or a relationship with many or most of the same attributes that are familiar to all of us in it's vanilla counterpart - the marriage.
In this day and age, is 24/7 truly possible? Are BDSM dynamics moments in time? Or is 24/7 a state of mind?
How many times do we read or hear of people in long term D/s relationships saying that "there's no D/s anymore" "He doesn't Dominate me anymore" "she doesn't submit as readily as she used to" "life gets in the way" etc etc....
Many people in the lifestyle talk about Total Power Exchange, and the phrase seems fairly self explanatory. However it is not quite as simplistic as it sounds, and i believe that for many, there are varying degrees and ideas of what it actually is and how it actually works.
There has been discussion about whether or not living in a 24/7 relationship means that play is not as important as a casual or part time D/s connection.
i've heard both yes and no answers and the reasons behind the answers ...
This article is my own personal view of living in a 24/7 relationship.
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