01/02/2022 kissa leads a discussion on Drop on another server.
Subspace - This term generally is used to describe a moderate to deep trancelike condition experienced by persons in the submissive position in a D/s relationship during interaction with the person in the Dominant position in the relationship.
For the purposes of this article I will assume that you have successfully entered Sub-Space with your submissive and are now at the point where you would like to deepen that space or move your submissive 'within' Space.
This eruption of self-realization, spontaneous experience of awakening or 'space' occurs to both Dominant and submissive equally.
The reality and effects of space for Doms and subs.
Addressing drop in Doms and subs
It is important to remember that a Dominant or submissive who is in 'space' will remember differently, or that space will alter how that memory 'feels'.
Space . . . the beckoning edge of the mind. It defies ready description, challenges us with its illusive presence yet exists in the same undefinable way that all intangible things exist.
The detaching of a Dominant due to excess energy release!
Sub-Space is very similar to other trancelike conditions which are practiced worldwide under names such as prayer, meditation and hypnosis or regression. With most submissives it is important for them to first 'believe' in the existence of sub-space and second to identify the sensations within themselves that are indicators of the existence of that space when they have entered it. There are a few submissives that can be triggered non-voluntarily into sub-space but this phenomenon is somewhat rare and is not the direct focus of this article.
03/29/2019 and 4/8/20 by kissa Sub drops can be a little more frequent than Top drop but either way it can happen. No one is immune from it depending on your emotional state and how things played out during play time.
Things in the scene are not as simple as going into sub space and come out of it a happier person
Dealing with drop
Therefore, I can give you some pointers on how to get to sub space, but it is ultimately up to each Top and bottom to find out what works for them.
It is such a complex biochemical process that it would be good for us to understand.
One of the most fascinating aspects of BDSM is its ability to induce altered states of consciousness.
What is and how to handle Domspace.
Understanding subdrop and dealing with aftercare as a Service Top.
Many discuss the aftercare of a bottom; but fail to mention that the top half of the slash requires it as well.
Subspace, sub-drop and more.
An exploration and explanation of subspace: what it is and the care of subs who enter and return.
What sub drop is and the effects of sub space and sub drop, and the importance of aftercare and self-care after a scene.