SSC vs RACK.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2193 Read Count: 121
SSC vs RACK.
Melanoma is an increasingly common form of life-threatening cancer, usually found on the skin, and known for its early and rapid tendency to spread to other organs. Melanoma is frequently found on the back -- a location often whipped during SM play. The back is also a location not easy for a person to examine themselves. Studies have shown that manipulation of a melanoma (and a whip stroke, spank, or other type of blow would, obviously, be a form of "manipulation") definitely increases the number of cancer cells that break off and begin to spread to other parts of the body. It is therefore essential that SM practitioners know how to spot possible melanomas, both on themselves and on their partners, to avoid whipping or otherwise disturbing melanomas, and to receive early, definitive medical diagnosis and treatment.
This article will deal primarily with a very common and dramatic type of seizure often called the grand mal seizure, both in vanilla and BDSM settings.
Not everything you find on the Internet, when looking for safety advice, is good information. Much of it in fact forms part of very persistent urban legends. Here is a simple list of first line safety issues: the myth as well as the facts.
My most cited piece. This was an article I wrote in protest against some of the ugliness, visciousness and and stupidity I started seeing in the DC scene in the wake of the Black Rose Tenth Anniversary Celebration. Little did I know how universal the problems were in the community at large.....
There are indeed people out there who I would consider Masters of their trade within BDSM circles. These folks have spent a great deal of time and effort into learning their craft and it shows.
When you first get into the scene you tend to meet a ton of new people. So how do you check up on your new found friend(s)?
Th House rules and ideals for House Solitude.
What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.
The much anticipated, totally new, Ten Commandments, handed down to me from the supreme Uber Dom of the universe.
Coming out as kinky.
Within the BDSM realm there is a very important ingredient, namely masochism.
Spotting the signs and dealing with the aftereffects of being used by a predator in the BDSM lifesyle.
Poly Relationships within the BDSM lifestyle.
Instruction on the basics of formal protocol in a Don/sub relationship.
An exploration and explanation of subspace: what it is and the care of subs who enter and return.
The importance of trust in BDSM relationship
Definitions of a submissive from a Dominant's point of view. The differeing views of what a submissive actually is.
Basics of Negotiations in the BDSM lifestyle.
The owner can place any limitation on their property that is acceptable at the time of negotiations. Any limitation that the slave agrees to is acceptable.
Recently I had an interesting experience with a wannabees slave. I write all of this for you all to realize what hazards there are out there when you are looking for an in-home slave/sub.
When you consider a Master/Mistress and slave relationship you must consider what exactly a slave is. What rights is a slave allowed? What behaviors are acceptable? What consequences are permitted?
I get a lot of questions asking about what separates a middle from a little. Unfortunately there's not too much information or resources for littles who identify more as a middle, so I'm going to try and help with that.
Master Eso presents twelve essays to be read in order, thus, they are submitted in chapter format. Topics are: Article One: Absolute Slavery, Article Two: Our Absolute Lifestyle, Article Three: Defining Absolute and Total Power Exchange, Article Four: Honorifics, Titles and Respect, Article Five: Slavery in Word and Speech, Article Six: Defining Abuse in Absolute and Total Power Exchange, Article Seven: Safewords In Slavery, Article Eight: Consent With Awareness, Article Nine: The Process Of Selection, Article Ten: Knights Vs. Gods, Article Eleven: Slave Petitions, Article Twelve: An Esoteric View: Civility and Incivility In The Scene