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Summary:

The 6th amendment and the BDSM/kink/fetish community (aka sexual minorities)


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 578 Read Count: 1
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
Summary:

Why are people into spanking?


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 8 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 21097 Read Count: 31
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Reality Check by instructor144 Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

How D/s relationships deal with that pesky thing called "the real world."    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1654 Read Count: 14
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Summary:

Lots of people ask me: How do I make my LDR work


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 95 Read Count: 1
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 01/08/2019
Summary:

When beginning a relationship, submissives and littles must go slow and go smart. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1877 Read Count: 3
[Report This] Published: 12/26/2018 Updated: 01/04/2019
Human property by DominantMan78 Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Can a human being be owned? For me, rape is the ultimate expression of TPE.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1134 Read Count: 6
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 12/30/2018
Emotional Sadism/Masochism by Nookie Notes Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A piece specifically about pathologies, NOT consensual play


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1944 Read Count: 96
[Report This] Published: 10/17/2018 Updated: 10/18/2018
Open Relationships by Steve Pavlina Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Dispelling some myths about open relationships.    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3353 Read Count: 0
[Report This] Published: 10/10/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
BDSM: The Nature of Consent by xellibabex Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

SSC vs RACK.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2193 Read Count: 316
[Report This] Published: 07/26/2018 Updated: 07/26/2018
Summary:

Melanoma is an increasingly common form of life-threatening cancer, usually found on the skin, and known for its early and rapid tendency to spread to other organs. Melanoma is frequently found on the back -- a location often whipped during SM play. The back is also a location not easy for a person to examine themselves. Studies have shown that manipulation of a melanoma (and a whip stroke, spank, or other type of blow would, obviously, be a form of "manipulation") definitely increases the number of cancer cells that break off and begin to spread to other parts of the body. It is therefore essential that SM practitioners know how to spot possible melanomas, both on themselves and on their partners, to avoid whipping or otherwise disturbing melanomas, and to  receive early, definitive medical diagnosis and treatment.     


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1991 Read Count: 258
[Report This] Published: 05/20/2018 Updated: 05/27/2018
How to handle a seizure by Jay Wiseman Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

This article will deal primarily with a very common and dramatic type of seizure often called the grand mal seizure, both in vanilla and BDSM settings. 


Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6148 Read Count: 217
[Report This] Published: 05/20/2018 Updated: 05/27/2018
Summary:

Not everything you find on the Internet, when looking for safety advice, is good information. Much of it in fact forms part of very persistent urban legends. Here is a simple list of first line safety issues: the myth as well as the facts.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2277 Read Count: 86
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/15/2018
Summary: A semi-fantastical look at the reality of being a pro Dominatrix.
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1150 Read Count: 875
[Report This] Published: 06/15/2017 Updated: 06/18/2017
Summary:

My most cited piece. This was an article I wrote in protest against some of the ugliness, visciousness and and stupidity I started seeing in the DC scene in the wake of the Black Rose Tenth Anniversary Celebration. Little did I know how universal the problems were in the community at large.....    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6118 Read Count: 564
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
10,000 Hours to Mastery by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

There are indeed people out there who I would consider Masters of their trade within BDSM circles. These folks have spent a great deal of time and effort into learning their craft and it shows.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 535 Read Count: 798
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

When you first get into the scene you tend to meet a ton of new people. So how do you check up on your new found friend(s)?


Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 761 Read Count: 652
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
House Solitude Tenets by Cade Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Th House rules and ideals for House Solitude.


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: Ceremony, D/s-M/s, General, Lifestyle Info, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1864 Read Count: 1329
[Report This] Published: 05/03/2016 Updated: 05/03/2016
Summary:

What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.


Categories: Dominance > Self Training, The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2264 Read Count: 1766
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
The New Ten Commandments by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The much anticipated, totally new, Ten Commandments, handed down to me from the supreme Uber Dom of the universe.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Humour, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 219 Read Count: 1285
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

Coming out as kinky.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1707 Read Count: 833
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

Within the BDSM realm there is a very important ingredient, namely masochism.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2165 Read Count: 788
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

Spotting the signs and dealing with the aftereffects of being used by a predator in the BDSM lifesyle.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1439 Read Count: 833
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

Poly Relationships within the BDSM lifestyle.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1699 Read Count: 1291
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2015 Updated: 10/18/2015
Top Hat and Tails: by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Instruction on the basics of formal protocol in a Don/sub relationship.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1899 Read Count: 886
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Summary:

An exploration and explanation of subspace: what it is and the care of subs who enter and return.


Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3523 Read Count: 948
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
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