Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Stories
Summary: A semi-fantastical look at the reality of being a pro Dominatrix.
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1150 Read Count: 496
[Report This] Published: 06/15/2017 Updated: 06/18/2017
Summary:

My most cited piece. This was an article I wrote in protest against some of the ugliness, visciousness and and stupidity I started seeing in the DC scene in the wake of the Black Rose Tenth Anniversary Celebration. Little did I know how universal the problems were in the community at large.....    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6118 Read Count: 362
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
10,000 Hours to Mastery by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

There are indeed people out there who I would consider Masters of their trade within BDSM circles. These folks have spent a great deal of time and effort into learning their craft and it shows.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 535 Read Count: 441
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

When you first get into the scene you tend to meet a ton of new people. So how do you check up on your new found friend(s)?


Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 761 Read Count: 367
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
House Solitude Tenets by Cade Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Th House rules and ideals for House Solitude.


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: Ceremony, D/s-M/s, General, Lifestyle Info, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1864 Read Count: 654
[Report This] Published: 05/03/2016 Updated: 05/03/2016
Summary:

What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle, Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2264 Read Count: 821
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
The New Ten Commandments by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The much anticipated, totally new, Ten Commandments, handed down to me from the supreme Uber Dom of the universe.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Humour, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 219 Read Count: 749
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

Coming out as kinky.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1707 Read Count: 441
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

Within the BDSM realm there is a very important ingredient, namely masochism.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2165 Read Count: 496
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

Spotting the signs and dealing with the aftereffects of being used by a predator in the BDSM lifesyle.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1439 Read Count: 498
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 10/20/2015
Summary:

Poly Relationships within the BDSM lifestyle.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1699 Read Count: 707
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2015 Updated: 10/18/2015
Top Hat and Tails: by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Instruction on the basics of formal protocol in a Don/sub relationship.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1899 Read Count: 551
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Summary:

An exploration and explanation of subspace: what it is and the care of subs who enter and return.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3523 Read Count: 580
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Summary:

The importance of trust in BDSM relationship


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2235 Read Count: 1251
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 09/14/2015
What is a submissive? by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Definitions of a submissive from a Dominant's point of view. The differeing views of what a submissive actually is.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1643 Read Count: 545
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 09/09/2015
Can I Get That In Writing? by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Basics of Negotiations in the BDSM lifestyle.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Contracts
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1610 Read Count: 369
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 09/09/2015
Summary:

The owner can place any limitation on their property that is acceptable at the time of negotiations. Any limitation that the slave agrees to is acceptable.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 502 Read Count: 14
[Report This] Published: 08/17/2015 Updated: 08/27/2015
Summary:

Recently I had an interesting experience with a wannabees slave. I write all of this for you all to realize what hazards there are out there when you are looking for an in-home slave/sub.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 7489 Read Count: 512
[Report This] Published: 08/17/2015 Updated: 08/24/2015
Summary:

When you consider a Master/Mistress and slave relationship you must consider what exactly a slave is. What rights is a slave allowed? What behaviors are acceptable? What consequences are permitted?


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1586 Read Count: 743
[Report This] Published: 08/17/2015 Updated: 08/24/2015
What is a Middle? by DDlgdoodles Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

I get a lot of questions asking about what separates a middle from a little. Unfortunately there's not too much information or resources for littles who identify more as a middle, so I'm going to try and help with that.    


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 351 Read Count: 415
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2015 Updated: 08/21/2015
Twelve Essays By Master Eso by Master Eso Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 1]
Summary:

Master Eso presents twelve essays to be read in order, thus, they are submitted in chapter format. Topics are: Article One: Absolute Slavery, Article Two: Our Absolute Lifestyle, Article Three: Defining Absolute and Total Power Exchange, Article Four: Honorifics, Titles and Respect, Article Five: Slavery in Word and Speech, Article Six: Defining Abuse in Absolute and Total Power Exchange, Article Seven: Safewords In Slavery, Article Eight: Consent With Awareness, Article Nine: The Process Of Selection, Article Ten: Knights Vs. Gods, Article Eleven: Slave Petitions, Article Twelve: An Esoteric View: Civility and Incivility In The Scene


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 12 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 11959 Read Count: 22365
[Report This] Published: 08/11/2015 Updated: 08/15/2015
Summary:

Abusers and dominants are so similar on the surface that it's scarily difficult to tell them apart.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 751 Read Count: 830
[Report This] Published: 07/27/2015 Updated: 08/09/2015
Summary:

An explanation of the Taken in Hand theory of D/s consciously and consensually male controlled sexually exclusive monogamous relationship in which the man’s power is real and for the purpose of cultivating a deeply connected, fully engaged relationship.


Categories: Dominance, The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1336 Read Count: 835
[Report This] Published: 03/14/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Contracting 101 by Castle Realm Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

the basic purposes of contracts in a D/s relationship.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Contracts
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1281 Read Count: 4036
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Abuse: A Common Link? by Castle Realm Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary: An insightful look at a serious issue in D/s relationships. Help for dealing with the ghosts from our pasts.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3049 Read Count: 1461
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
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