Content Notes: Philosophy
Other Results: 1 Series
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SAFE WORDS ~ NO SAFETY by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

One of the most talked about features of the BDSM community is the existence and usage of the Safe Word or Safe Call or Safe Sign.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 855 Read Count: 269
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
Roots... by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

It is my personal belief that D/s emerges from the most basic primal and instinctual triggers within the human body and human mind.     


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 479 Read Count: 250
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
Summary:

Together these elements form the 'Seductions', a presentation by the submissive aspect to encourage or lure the engagement of action by others in the form of an exchange of vital energy.     


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 647 Read Count: 283
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 12/31/2021
mindSet ~ by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

That which directs ones thinking. A 'fixing - fixation' of ones state of mind.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 1915 Read Count: 276
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 12/31/2021
Summary:

Wizarding rules as applied to D/s


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4895 Read Count: 715
[Report This] Published: 02/19/2020 Updated: 06/26/2021
Summary:

This is your life; give your precious commodities your way!


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1341 Read Count: 302
[Report This] Published: 02/12/2020 Updated: 06/26/2021
COMMAND TRAINING by FRR Mallory, FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

To be able to readily call forth, evoke, exact or compel. The art of command requires the ability to deliver an instruction into the very center of a submissives response centers.     


Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1434 Read Count: 314
[Report This] Published: 10/16/2020 Updated: 01/19/2021
Summary:

tarryn{MHK} and kissa divide and discuss punishment and play punishment - funishment. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2831 Read Count: 638
[Report This] Published: 04/26/2020 Updated: 06/03/2020
Summary:

While sadomasochism can be justified by the ability of pain to enhance pleasure and the happiness brought by the endorphin high, the Dominance/submission (D/s) side of the BDSM equation is not so easily explained    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1682 Read Count: 515
[Report This] Published: 02/10/2019 Updated: 08/11/2019
I Am Submissive by reflectedtruths Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Are roles like submission, dominance, switching kinks... roles we choose to play? Or do people choose because they have inherent traits, ingrained within their psyche? Does it differ by role, potentially?


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 542 Read Count: 426
[Report This] Published: 05/05/2019 Updated: 06/01/2019
Summary:

Systematizing the dynamics of a Dominance/submission (D/s) relationship.     


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1953 Read Count: 663
[Report This] Published: 02/10/2019 Updated: 04/17/2019
My Love is not Your Love by M010N L4BE Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

My love (as a man) is not your love (as a woman).    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 837 Read Count: 584
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 02/24/2019
Summary:

Why are people into spanking?


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Impact, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 8 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 21097 Read Count: 9683
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
MRC by mxponysyn Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

MRC as a safety anagram.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 534 Read Count: 616
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Summary:

An analogy. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 144 Read Count: 598
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 01/04/2019
DD/lg vs Ageplay by DDlgdoodles Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

For many beginners coming in DD/lg, there is some confusion about the two and whether or not they exist together.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > DDlg MDlb CGl ABDLmnop
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1304 Read Count: 545
[Report This] Published: 12/02/2018 Updated: 01/04/2019
BDSM "Energy" by spectrum153 Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The energy generated by WITWD. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 967 Read Count: 830
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2018 Updated: 10/19/2018
Some Facts about SM by Author Unknown Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

S/M is not an aberration. S/M is a sexual orientation that is found in a significant percentage of the population.     


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 820 Read Count: 541
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2018 Updated: 10/10/2018
Deviants in BDSM by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Since the BDSM community is so diverse a subculture, are there people part of the BDSM culture that you(others) see as deviant? 


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 608 Read Count: 2383
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

The Enso Method is a holistic approach to BDSM and Slave Training. It is a philosophy that pertains to the duality in all things.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 710 Read Count: 1818
[Report This] Published: 09/09/2015 Updated: 10/04/2015
Exchange vs. Transfer by riotcow Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Someone asked: What does the dominant owe the submissive in return for his submission?    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 445 Read Count: 1885
[Report This] Published: 09/10/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
The Psychology of Slavery by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Understanding Consensual Slavery


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3457 Read Count: 1420
[Report This] Published: 09/09/2015 Updated: 09/29/2015
Summary:

The nature of love in and out of a BDSM or D/s reationship.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1046 Read Count: 1675
[Report This] Published: 09/07/2015 Updated: 09/14/2015
Summary: Past Featured Story

Written after reading yet another opinion piece on the vast difference between fantasy and reality in kink.     


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1336 Read Count: 2190
[Report This] Published: 09/10/2015 Updated: 09/11/2015
Summary:

Analysing love within a BDSM relationship.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1486 Read Count: 1409
[Report This] Published: 09/07/2015 Updated: 09/09/2015
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