10/26/22 Sweet Sass leads a discussion on High Protocol - the whys and wherefores and also dips into mentoring
9/24/22 Topic Chat on How to be a Dominant
The act of humility, the state of presenting yourself so to the world is perhaps one of the most difficult things to do.
This is from a workshop I run on humiliation. Humiliation IS edge play.
Humiliation and the male submissive is often the delivery of shame.
One of the most delicate practices of the BDSM community is the art form of directed, controlled, willful and consensual humiliation.
Bringing D/s into an estabished relationship.
This is primarily oriented toward male submissives! It is designed to offer ideas, hints and suggestions based on some common male fetishes such as dog training, cross dressing, light humiliation etc.
One of the first questions asked of a new submissive is "What are your limits?"
The handicapped in the BDSM community are often overlooked and many assume they do not exist. They do.
As an erotic, sensual practice -- hair and scalp tugging are quite popular. For some people there is a desire for a leisurely massage, for others the hunger for a sharp, eye watering tug.
Perhaps one of the most challenging decisions we face as a parent is what we should tell our children, when and how much. By choosing to live within the D/s or BDSM lifestyle the normal sexual issues exist with the addition of this serious added component.
Sub-Space is very similar to other trancelike conditions which are practiced worldwide under names such as prayer, meditation and hypnosis or regression. With most submissives it is important for them to first 'believe' in the existence of sub-space and second to identify the sensations within themselves that are indicators of the existence of that space when they have entered it. There are a few submissives that can be triggered non-voluntarily into sub-space but this phenomenon is somewhat rare and is not the direct focus of this article.
The Wall: The Wall is one identification of the limit that the mind and body are physically capable of processing.
UNG talks high protocol and it isn't all tea and bootblacking
There is more to dominance to getting your way
1/12/20 Garden Topic Chat with The Kink Shrink on Humiliation Play
Handmade and purchased items used for BDSM play.
Sensation Play toys made by hand and easily duplicable.
esmay presents two chats about How D/s Can Help Confidence and Self Esteem September 1st, 2019
As someone who has been a unicorn, and would be again under the right circumstances, here is some information and guidelines that may be helpful
It seems that when we reach a certain degree of intimacy we start allowing ourselves some behaviors that bring conflict and emotional damage. Then, perhaps what we should do is to learn to recognize those behaviors and ways to avoid them.
The knot not to tie! People commonly tie the granny knot when they are trying to tie the square knot instead, by Hot Pink
How To Tie A Square Knot by Hot Pink
Therefore, I can give you some pointers on how to get to sub space, but it is ultimately up to each Top and bottom to find out what works for them.