• ALL standard Il Solaio rules are fully in effect at all times.

• Participation and level of participation is absolutely optional.

• DO NOT touch or interact sexually with anyone without expressed consent given in full view of the moderators. We might be playing, but we will be watching carefully.

• If someone declines any activity with you, do not cause drama. Take it like a grown up and move on.

• Limits are to be respected at all times.

• Voyeurs are welcome!

• Level of participation will be indicated using the Online (green), Away (yellow) and Busy (red) icons found to the left hand side of your screen.

  • Green - Full participation

  • Yellow - Partial participation/Only specific partners permitted

  • Red - Voyeur only. Do not engage in play, they are here only to watch

• As a suggestion, you can list your orientation in the mood section of your profile. This is not a requirement.

Violations of the rules will result in ONE warning only. Further violations of our rules will result in immediately being kicked from the room and you will not be permitted to return for the duration of the party.

Specific Room Rules - Know the Rules for Your Room

• To view the rules for all Chats, click here.
• To view the rules for The BDSM Garden, click here.
• To view the rules for the Il Solaio, click here.
• To view the rules for the sub haven, click here.
• To view the rules for the pets and littles room, click here.
• To view the rules for Moderators and Admins, click here.

Event Etiquette and Rules
• To view the rules for the Hot Topics chatroom, click here.
• To view the Etiquette during Purposeful Topics, click here.
• To view the rules for Orgies and Play Parties, click here.

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